when me and my husband make love i imagine that i am some one else and my husband having an affair! i dont know why it turns me on when i am such a jealous person! i dont tell him dough!
2006-08-20 20:21:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no it is not weird.
You should tell him and choose the caracter you gonna play with him
2006-08-20 20:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by ycaruss y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the excitement and the drama and fear of having sex with some one else you think about it that why you pretend your husband is having affair with a other women because that one of your fantasy and that what turn you on you get so hot and wet when you think about it is to watch your husband and a other women having sex in front of you as you sit there and watch them
2006-08-21 04:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by little ace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people have fantasies when having sex, but specially about what they usually see on TV,Internet ,etc.. maybe you transform in your brain that way because you think that you husband like that kind of woman. accept yourself at all times,specially when having sex. you could get to a point when this fantasy don't gonna turn you on any more and the brain is a very powerful think. so don't do that any more.
2006-08-21 03:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by majestic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its prolly cuz u are such a jealous person that it is a turn on. but you don't tell him because u are so jealous that u wouldn't want him to think its ok to cheat right?
2006-08-21 03:29:00 · answer #4 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is perfectly natural...many couples do this. it maybe the fact of having sex with someone commited to someone. like he is your "forbidden fruit" maybe the act of this "naughty performance" enhances you sex life and relationship it is really "role play"...for example: you are the woman "he" is having an affair with and you both are acting this out. 6 out of 10 couples engage is some sort of role play through out their relatioship at atleast one point or another. i think it keeps things EXCITINg and fun although you are very jealous the idea of this keeps the sex life active and very interesting....i wonder when i am married will i be a freak?...lol
2006-08-21 03:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by ♥JustLikeHeaven♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is somehow wierd. But if doesn't have any influence on your sex life is no problem.
I've been trying to imagine better/more sexy girl then I had in that moment but it turns me off. After that I try enjoy reality.
2006-08-21 03:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Humm..I would say that is a little bizarre. I definitely would not tell him. That is something that you need to keep to yourself because that could be very hurtful and potentially fatal to your marriage.
2006-08-21 03:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Amy J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is weird. he probably treated you better while you were dating and you wish he would treat you like that again let him know before you become too upset to let him know and go somewhere else like my wife did.
2006-08-21 03:29:01 · answer #8 · answered by dan s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BABY YOU ARE SO YOUNG ,IT SEEMS ASTHOUGH YOU WERE NOT REALLY READY FOR MARRIAGE AND ALL THE FIGHTING AND FU-KING IS REALLY NOT HEALTHY FOR EITHER ONE OF YOU, HOWEVER I SUGGEST THAT YOU BOTH CONSIDER COUNCILING SO THAT YOUR MARRIAGE CAN MAKE IT ,YOU NEVER MENTION THE AGE OF YOUR HUSBAND NOR WHETHER HE WORKS, PERHAPS YOU BOTH GOT MARRIED FOR THE WRONG REASONS ,THINK ABOUT IT,
2006-08-21 07:29:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not wierd but I would try to come up with another fantasy myself
2006-08-21 20:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋