Hey i have one best friend and we are really close.As close as sisters.We used to share every secret and everything.I always felt possessive also when somebody else becomes her best friend.Once a friend of mine mocked at us saying that ppl will take us for lesbs and it deeplu hurt me that i used to stop talking to my best friend for a long while.She noticed this and talked to me and everything was okay.But i am still afraid.Is anything wrong with me?I am soooo afraid that sometimes i cry a lot,dont talk to her and sometimes worry .Can you help me.Havent you had friends who were like sisters to you.Havent you been possessive.Please answer this and no harsh jokes as i am already depressed.
2006-08-20 20:13:32 · 11 answers · asked by golden princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you should not have let this go this far
your guys are best friends you should hold on to that there are people who have never had that
so what if someone said that they are just mad
many girls only wish they could have what you have
i never had a best-friend and I'm 23
don't let no-one get you down the world is not nice and you need good friend like her to help you out
2006-08-20 20:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by yomom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in your shoes close to 5 years ago,honey everything changes even you and your feelings will.
If you learn to just let go and not think about it so much.
My best friend and I went through the same thing she ended up moving away. She someone new best friend in her life.Im fine with it.
No I am not a lesbian but I was very possesive.I wanted all the attention.Mostly I learned that it was my own insecurities and selfishness.I
I knew that she liked me and that we were even close as sisters.
I can even call to this day and talk about any and everything but I learned to let go and not care so much.
You will get through it,I say still be friends dont push away but try to find a new circle of friends and dont push away the older ones.
2006-08-20 20:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a best-girlfriend that was overly possessive, after 13 years of friendship, we are no longer friends...because she was extreme. I haven't spoken to her in over 3 years. Sometimes I do wonder if she had "feelings" for me. Her possessiveness lead her to jealousy over other female friends, and stupid accusations. Be careful not to allow yourself to get out of control.
2006-08-20 20:51:39 · answer #3 · answered by Kerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not right to be possessive over a friend yeah being best friends and doing everything together is fine but you cant control her you should have other friends and so should she fights will happen always do so you need some of your own friends to fall back on
2006-08-20 20:27:55 · answer #4 · answered by crazie_for_ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off who cares what other people think! People are screwy, if you are that tight with her than dont turn her away but at the same time dont smother her. You are friends and you need other friend as well. Spread your wings Girl!
2006-08-20 20:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by Tracy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people can be so mean and cruel. these is absolutely nothing wrong with having a close female friends who is like a sister and who you share everything with. it is only natural to resent someone who takes her attemtion away from you when you and she are so close. this is pretty normal stuff and when people tell you that you are she are gay tell them they are pretty sick and apparently have never had a really close friend.
2006-08-20 20:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by manyhartz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it the same thing happened to me instead of being depressed about it I turned it into an emotion that doesn't show.It took me a few days to get over it but I said you know your not a lesbian who cares what they think about you.
2006-08-20 20:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by jessica chic_soccer_art klatzke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 12:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek therapy. Once you mentioned that you were possessive, that's a red flag to me. You sound infatuated with your friend.
2006-08-20 20:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by descartesprotege 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't woory ue self 2 death i have a friend like that accept hes a boy and we get teased a lot but we have never stooped being friends
2006-08-20 20:52:39 · answer #10 · answered by princessinwaiting012 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋