I hve a boyfriend that I love him and admired him because he told me many lies?!!!And when there is nothing to do and there is nobody to talk to.here and you people are my lastchance and hope for showing me the way of truth.I am on holiday in Sweden where my boyfriend live and study at the university..he never argued with me, he talked not too much and when i was angry, he was the mountain of silence for me,he bought for me two ship tickets for a short journey to Norway, he invited me to erstaurents and brought me to his parents house and told me he loved mebut but last night I discoverd on his PC that he was chatting during month february with another girl and had chatted before we met last year while he told me he hasnever had met another girl, dont know what I should do..I really get mad at him and he has been begging for forgivenss,his punishment is today: to buy a pair of golden bracelet for me instead of what he ahs done,e is ashamed of himself for telling me lie..should I forgiv
2006-08-20 19:48:56 · 10 answers · asked by princessFiona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may as well forgive him since it seemed to happen just once but if he keeps doing it again and again then you would need to make the choice of what's best for you.
2006-08-20 20:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by T.Mack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that if he knows he has done the wrong thing, he is only buying you that bracelet because he was embarrassed about being caught and not really ashamed of what he did!? Were you with him when he was chatting with these girls? If you weren't I would say that was perfectly normal but If you were then Id say he has a wondering eye!
2006-08-21 02:56:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sad sad sad come on, whats the matter with just talking to other girls, i talk to other man, and my man dont mind, and if he comes on an talks to other women i wont make him feel like crap and tell him that he has to get me a braclet, i mean come on girl, he is getting it cause u told him to, so that will mean nothing, when a man gets u something with out u asking him to, then he shows his feelings, not when u ask him, any way whats the matter with just talking to another lady, it dont mean that he is sleeping with her, please dont take this in a bad way ok, im just saying how i think it could be thats all, let your hair down and be happy ok and remember that you are the one that is with him, not the other girl,well i hope this has helped you
2006-08-21 03:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by louise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... how much do you love your boyfriend? Thats i guess a very tough question...
Well, we can say men are men... naturally, they love women and be with women! thats their weak point! thats u should know and girl, thats only chatting... be considerate! He loves you... make that feelings grow... dont push him away to you... instead pull him to your way. Be happy and be confident with the relationship you have with him...make it more memorable.
2006-08-21 03:34:00 · answer #4 · answered by latteen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats up to u to decide cause it might just be a fwiend of his r it might be his girlfriend that other girl might not not no about u and he might be wanting to hav s*x wit u and the other girl so if he invites u under the covers dont go
2006-08-21 02:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by <<~~Da Cool X~~>> 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should forgive him. my boyfriend did the same thing to me. just ask him why he didn't tell you the truth and then forgive him. it makes you feel so much better. believe me. and it sounds like he really loves you, he's doing as much as possible for you to forgive him. so just forgive him, it's the best you can do.
2006-08-21 03:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive him. He's grovelled and bought jewellery.
2006-08-21 02:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you do, he begs you rigth? and you punished him,thats good enough
2006-08-21 03:42:16 · answer #8 · answered by verdance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forgive and forget
2006-08-21 03:01:01 · answer #9 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd move to arkansas
2006-08-21 02:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋