feeling insecure about his ex girlfriend?

Question

me and my boyfriend of nine months kinda like to a break our 7 month and he met this gorgeous model..... well now were back together...but everytime I look at her I get sick because I feel like shes so beautiful and I have nothing to offer him like she did..... im skinny and a really dont have large breast and she did... what do I do to make this feeling go away..becuz he tells me im beautiful and all that but its still here

Answer 1

Honey, he's with you because he chose to be with you. Which means that everything she supposedly had to offer didn't amount to much. Beauty is only skin deep, 3/4 of the boobs on the planet are fake and consider this....what you see in pictures, is not often what you get in person, especially after the computer touch ups. If he finds you beautiful, then believe you are. If you want to build that security up from within tell yourself something positive about yourself each day...if you say it enough, you'll start to believe it.

Answer 2

hey yeah, thats true..beauty is skin deep.. also, guys dont think boobs are such a big factor with girls ( non-shallow guys ) ..they just think if you got big boobs so its just like a bonus...so dont worry too much

i had the same problem..only thing i was really possessive about my guy and i still am..but with time you realize that relationships are more bout how you feel being with the other person in your life..guys who are shallow, perhaps immature, they tend to think a beautiful girl is the most important thing for them .. but trust me, when a guy says you're beautiful he means it..you guys even got back together..believe it you're in good hands ! dont worry that feeling would go away soon.. its momentary..let time pass and you'll be comfortable and will feel okay too

:)