IM worrying too much,we were so much in love and each time he tells he's quitting me and each time he comes back to me but again we fight coz im too possessive. i miss him too much wen i ask him to text or phone he doesnt like me to ask him to do such and such. he wants his freedom and with time come to me.but i cant bear the distance.and cry a lot.wat can u advice me to do.i fear if he leaves me.but 5years we're together and each time we fight and come back together. perhaps i pressurize him too much.but wat do i do i dont want to lose him but i dont give him time to come to me dats y we're always distant.
2006-08-20 19:02:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
freak!
2006-08-20 19:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it about your own life that is so bad, that makes you want to cling to his? Just reading your question makes me want to run in the opposite direction. Five years of this? Honey, this isn't love, it's an addiction. Love is allowing the people in the relationship to be themselves, maintain their individual identity, or simpley giving them space to breathe. You act as though he's "air" to you and you can't live without him. You also come across as super needy. I don't know what happened in your lifetime to make you this way, but no relationship can survive under these circumstances. If you don't want to lose him, loosen the grip on the leash, he's not a pet you can keep, he's a person. Wouldn't you rather him be with you because he's made the choice to? Right now it sounds as though he's with you because he's being forced into it. You need to lighten up a little.
2006-08-21 02:15:13 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
perhaps you could stop being so jealous..or maybe this is an indication that he no longer wants to be with you.
2006-08-24 15:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend some time with your girl friends. you need to realize that you both need time alone and you nee to accept that.
2006-08-21 02:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was him i would leave and never come back....
2006-08-21 02:23:08 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need something to do with your time and energy instead of focusing it all on him.
2006-08-21 02:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋