well i used to have a friend that we did all this things like paintball hang out and stuff....but lately he been talk to the girl that i been trying to get wit and then like a few weeks back she jsut stops talkin ot me.......well i was wondering wat should i do?? jump him ?? kick his a**?? and the worst thing is he did this like 8 other friends that treated him like a lil brother....and so should i teach him a leason??
2006-08-20 18:59:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
idk becuz i just found out when i told my other friends there like wtf he did that S*** to us too so i didn't know hes like this.....and do u guys/ gals think i should tell the girl wat he does?
2006-08-20 19:37:28 · update #1
Obviously your friend has no character, value, or scruple to betray you and others the way he did. I know your gut instinct is to kick his a** but you don't want to do that. Do you really want to be charged with assault? I know that you have alot of pent up anger inside, however, jumping him will stir up more anger for you and him. Consequently, it will not teach him anything but self-defense. I'm not sure if your ultimate goal is to let him learn the errors of his ways or if you merely just want to sock him real good or maybe it's both. Whatever the case may be, two wrongs don't make a right...basically what I'm trying to convey to you is that he does not recognize that what he does is wrong. He has no social awareness or sensitivity. Most people learn by experiences. You can't help those who don't acknowledge that they need help. He will MAYBE learn his lesson when he finally looses all his friends and wonders why.
2006-08-20 19:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Ana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shorty dont fight over no girl man she will eat it up brag to her friends how you fighting over her it look real stupid. You can find better and flaunt it in her face trust me im a woman.
2006-08-21 02:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by nina j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think with the others you would have got the message he is like this...Why even be friends with this guy period??????
2006-08-21 02:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ask him whats up cuz violence never solves anything.
2006-08-21 02:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what kind of lesson you will give him! but don't be too harsh on him, talk to him
2006-08-21 02:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by beng_ganda25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋