I have been in a relationship with a man for the past five years. We live together and have acquired some personal property. I helped him pay his back taxes when I received my SSI and now he tells me to GET OUT because:
I was sleeping and woke up and went into the living room he was getting head from a so called friend. I am so angry I can't see straight. What should I do? Can I get a restraining order to keep him away from me until I am able to move?
2006-08-20 18:58:47 · 14 answers · asked by loqtpy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him alredii! daz ****** up...if he loved you he would have never done that to you...
2006-08-20 19:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by x0xc0nfusedgirlx0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't throw you out because you have established residence where he lives. Yough on him. Show cops cell phione vills to you with the address on it. Other bills too. Go to the DA and get advice. tgell them all below and show proof.. Go to the cops in the precinct NOW and get not only a restraining order, find out all your rights, say he verabally assaulted you, and then, find out how to get all your dough back from property, etc. Also tell cops that you LOANED him money for his taking care of back taxes, and that you have asked repeatedly for it to no avail. It's his word against yours. DENY his claims that you gave him it as a gift!!!!!The fact that you have together legally acquired property ( show poroof to the cops) indicates you do BUSINESS with him besides romaoince in the past, and your insistence that it was a loan to pay his back taxes should be emphasized. He will pay sooner of later. You might have to go to NY Supreme Court to get back everything. I'd certainly have him criminally charged at the DA and cops now, so that it becomes part of the court overall record. Also, move all your valuables into a Safe deposit box in a bank, like jewelry, money, bankbooks, bonds, deeds.... Yes, he does owe you,
2006-08-21 02:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2's company, 3's a crowd! Would hav been 1 thing if just living together. Seek legal services from state social services and get out! Just b aware u may loose some personal belongings. What's piece of mind worth? Priceless!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 02:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by glenn r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and take what you can for now. Then come back with someone and get the rest. Sue for anything damaged and also sue for the money that you gave him and say that he was supposed to pay you back.
2006-08-21 02:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by AveGirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear stay the **** away from him go to a shelter until u can find somewhere else to stay...and pray...
2006-08-21 02:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave his nasty a** if you could go stay with anybody, then go. he disrespected you in your own home and you do not need him because it sounds like you was the one helping him get through.
2006-08-21 02:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be the one to leave? Make him go.
2006-08-21 02:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by caramel_sundae1077 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I dont understand why YOU need to move. Why cant HE GET OUT?
2006-08-21 02:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice friends you got
2006-08-21 03:17:07 · answer #9 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother taking your things, honey.... GO!!!
2006-08-21 02:02:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋