Im getting my divorce in Nov and my ex had a girlfriend when we split up?
2006-08-20 18:27:02 · 18 answers · asked by ncgirl 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
im not looking to become involved, or in any hurry,and Im definitely not looking for sex. Ive been at home now for 10 months and it would be nice to go out to eat or a movie.
2006-08-20 19:14:39 · update #1
well I'm sorry to hear it but if it has to end and he has moved on I say yes move on you need to be happy also and you have needs too
2006-08-20 18:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by grey_wolf54486 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big hurry? Why not simply enjoy your new found freedom in discovering who you are, before becoming involved with another.
2006-08-20 18:58:00 · answer #2 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to your heart, go out with friends and have fun, but I don't think its wise or fair to start dating. You are emotionally not well yet to have a healthy relationship. First finish this one.
2006-08-20 18:35:24 · answer #3 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be ok for you to date while you are separated, but I think you should tell the person that you are separated and going through a divorce.
2006-08-20 18:39:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chelle_H_69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not but be upfront about the sex part. Us guys do kind of look forward to that part
2006-08-21 02:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Shaboomshaboom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait until your divorce is finally before looking just because your husabnd does it don't you have to do it i mean if your soon to be ex husband jump off the bridge would you do it think about it...
2006-08-20 18:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Rockstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. If you are seperated go ahead and start your search for that new guy. Make yourself happy. Hope you find a good guy.
2006-08-20 18:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by linzylynnz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definately not. It isn't hypocritical at all. As long as you get your divorce, youll be fine
2006-08-20 19:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by miss simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex's behavior gives you no justification to follow his lead. If you want to date, you will need to preface all your encounters with: "I'm married but ..."
2006-08-20 18:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be dating and who cares what he is doing? You can't keep your knees together for another 10 weeks?
2006-08-20 18:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋