I always say insults to other persons and I want to stop
2006-08-20 18:26:20 · 15 answers · asked by Jobo N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hehehe
I used to do that as well. Damn self defense mechanism gone wild!
Just gotta stop the cycle knowing that you can interrupt it. Just like stopping yourself from answering emails right away or the phone right away even though you might be busy doing something with someone else.
2006-08-20 18:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh good luck with that one. I was a bartender for close to ten years while I was going to school and raising babies. At work, I had the mouth of a sailor and the quick witt to back it up. Once it becomes a habit, it's hard to stop. I literally had to put a rubber band on my wrist and everytime I said something mean or insulting I snapped myself. Over time (like 6 months) I learned to think before I spoke. Apparently not everyone appreciates a person who speaks their mind. Wish you well honey...it's a hard habit to break!
2006-08-21 01:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if u really wanna stop all that u have to remember something and always keep it in mind that u hate to be insulted!
once u do that before u say a word u will not say it!!!
2006-08-21 01:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by Musty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so can i ask u / was u the boy u asked advice for that always get-ten beat up by every one cause with this request id say it was u and my answer would be stop be rude and maybe they stop beaten u up[ and if u need to talk about this talk to u school counsellor
or u parents or see some but u need help ?
2006-08-21 01:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by lostjakelost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your sense of humor if your just kidding! Some people think its funny to put someone else down. Its a problem! Just change your mindset. Who is in controll of your mind??
2006-08-21 01:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....anytime i have a bad habit that i want to rid myself of, like swearing, i wear a rubberband around my wrist and everytime i catch myself i pop the rubberband. it hurts really bad and after a while you stop the bad habit so you don't have to pop yourself. i think this might help you to think before you speak.
2006-08-21 01:32:53 · answer #6 · answered by Betty Sue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really good that you want to stop it. make a punishment for yourself .eg if you said insult don't use computer for 2days. dificult ha..!
2006-08-21 01:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by snow white 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahahhaha i could understand but umm just make your self stop think about if someone said that to you
2006-08-21 01:29:58 · answer #8 · answered by teddy bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get some counseling maybe
2006-08-21 01:31:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start thinking about things before you say them and bite your tongue just think it in your mind but dont let it out.
2006-08-21 01:32:29 · answer #10 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋