ok...my two best friends are now fighting(as in beating each other up, not those you see her,you walk away thing).they are both girls and both kinda involve in some gang so they are good fighters.they were best friends before this whole mess started...long story short....one of my friends were talking $h!t about people in school and when the other friend found out,she said she is going to beat the fcuk outa her....and im kinda torn in between the two. im not sure if this is a one on one thing or gang fight....and i dont really want to be involved in any of it at all(i've be in enough crap with the together)so what should i do?fight on one side and turn my back on the other or forget this and walk away?none of our parents know..and we will NOT let them know either
2006-08-20 18:23:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mon..thx but talking dont do anything to both of them!they are not thinkers!they do want they want..i've tried talking to them but it almost got me beaten up by the other members of their gang
2006-08-20 18:32:51 · update #1
I would NOT get involved if I were you. If you say that they won't listen to you and are going to do what they want, then I would say it is time to move on and find new "best friends". You don't need that in your life.
2006-08-28 16:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, gangs are dangerous, just stay out of it and walk away from both of them. There is a saying, the friends you keep depicts who you are. I know a couple of guys in gangs, I would say they are my friends "on a level" but at the end of the day I let them know up front I'm not getting involved in any of that nonsense. If they are old enough to do the crime they are old enough to pay the time. When you see your girlfriends just say hi, maybe hold short conversations but don't let them drag you down any further.
2006-08-26 10:34:43 · answer #2 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first you should not get involved with anything that calls themselves "gang". this is the first sign that something is not right.
2ND if the two girls are going to fight stay out of it and you should go to someone you trust in the school, like a teacher or an adult to let them know about this. if they are your friends it would be hard for you to live with yourself if something bad was to happen.
if they are truly gang members there is no telling what could happen.
3rd you should not have been involved in this in the first place. it will only get worse before it gets better.
2006-08-28 01:17:31 · answer #3 · answered by KEN L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first if they are you're two best friends then try to stop them from fighting and you really should let your parents know. second, why are you friends with someone in a gang? you know you can get killed over this and they could too? it is really worth it? let someone know if not your parents that these two girls are gonna fight because if something happened you wouldn't want it on your conscious and maybe too you need to find some new friends.
2006-08-29 01:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by ro gulley rat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk away. You cannot control what your friends do, it's their life. But you can control your own life. You tried doing your best, and your best wasn't enough. Sometimes you just have to step back and see that although you and your friends had a past together, and it was fun, things change. You cannot keep carrying this baggage, this fear. Move on. Make new friends. Take care of yourself now. Good luck â
2006-08-29 00:57:26 · answer #5 · answered by Dante 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stay neutral in this - and as little involved as possible.
Gang involvement of any kind is not good.
2006-08-29 00:23:10 · answer #6 · answered by ceekryt 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they are both your friends, i wouldn't choose sides. if either one of them tries to corner you into picking a side, let them know you choose not to pick one side over the other and for them to keep you out of it. you really have no part of it anyway. it's tough i know, but as YOU said, "they are not thinkers."
2006-08-28 23:45:28 · answer #7 · answered by CaramelKidsMom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave them both you can find better friends. if no one wants to talk of forgive and forget then forget them. you give them a chance they dont take it get out of the situation and they will figure it out
2006-08-28 16:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by ??? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As their best friend, i suggest you to stop them. As a friend, I am sure that you don't want your friend to hurt each other, right? You can talk to them calmly, and tell them what do you want. Good luck.
2006-08-21 01:31:18 · answer #9 · answered by chiisana_sora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if they ask you whos side u r on u should say "No comment" and if they let there gang beat u up they r not ur real riends but as the fight ing thing i would tell my parents..! BUT that is just me u do wat u think is right..! And i don't think they r ur really friends
2006-08-28 20:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋