I'm a male nurse and happily married, but my wife is out of the country for a month. I work with alot of females (of course) and talk and joke with them but nothing serious. Yesterday I got a card in the mail, the writer said they think about me all the time and wishes things were different. I have no suspects. How should I react? Should I tell my wife? (She's the REALLY jealous type)
2006-08-20 18:22:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if it's just one letter just ignore it for now.
if you continue to recieve more letters you should probably ask around and maybe tell your wife. if it's just one there should nt be much to worry bout.
2006-08-20 18:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your wife the the jealous type, i would suggest not to tell her first. ignore the letter and talk in the office mentioning that some crazy ppl sent you letter and the content of it. Then mention also that the person who wrote it should stop as you were happily married. All of the mentioning should not be directly but indirectly. Hopefully there should not be any more letter. But if it does, tell your wife (she will/might question you why you never tell her about the first letter)
2006-08-20 18:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by ray7104 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! do not tell your spouse! because you have not any suspects besides and your spouse is the jealous style, the obtrusive answer isn't any, do no longer tell her. therefore it is going to do more desirable damage than sturdy. it is going to easily disillusioned her and she would, in turn, accuse you of dishonest. How might want to you react? React the way you sense, then end residing on it. make positive you both throw the cardboard away or positioned it in an section the position your spouse won't be able to discover it because if she does, this would also seem worse than easily telling her about it. basically comprehend that you've an admirer at your artwork position and leave it at that.
2016-11-26 20:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your happily married,then their should be no question about telling her, whether she's the jealous type or not. It's hard to blame you for being honest. It's not your fault.
Is there a remote possibility that maybe your wife sent it or had someone do it for her, just to see if you would be honest and tell her? Just a thought.
2006-08-20 18:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by xxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her now....if you dont it could come back to haunt you.
Propose this, you recieve this 1 letter dont tell your wife, then she comes home checks the mail and its another one asking why you didnt reply to her first one...dont you think your wife is going to ask why you didnt tell her about the first one? She will lose trust in you and may begin to question alot of things. Keep an open wave of communication with your wife tell her everything that could potentially end your marriage.
Sheena
2006-08-20 18:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sheena B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to hide it, if she ever did accidently find it, you would be toast. Don't tell her about it over the phone or via e-mail. When she gets back just let her know but don't go overboard. If this person sent one letter they may send more. It is better that she is prepared in case another is sent. Maybe ask her if she sent it to you? I don't know, just don't make a huge deal out of it.
2006-08-20 18:29:18 · answer #6 · answered by TMH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!!! do you really want to start trouble throw the letter away and forget it ever came if you love your wife then don't hert her with this. be a smart man and think of your wife and not with your dik thats the way a man would handle it. don't let some one mess with your family bud.
2006-08-20 18:31:01 · answer #7 · answered by 4stringthndr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her if she will be really jealous. It would add unneccessary tension in your relationship. If you find out who sent the letter, tell them nicely that you aren't interested. Otherwise, just be flattered with the letter, and be careful not to send the wrong signals to your co-workers.
2006-08-20 18:29:30 · answer #8 · answered by bluevenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her so she can pull your pants down, smell your underwear and inspect your nuts to see if they're still full every time you're 10 mins late, tell her so she can start spying on you, verifying your schedule and checking calls made and received on your cell, tell her so she can drag you on the Maury P. show to take a lie detector test.
Tell her...oh wait..I've got something here....I can turn this into a poem!
You are my muse!
2006-08-20 18:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no then she will make a big deal out of it,if she is the jelous type it will probley backfire if you tell her and she might think something went on while she was gone.you didnt do anything so forget about it!! just know that you still got it going on!
2006-08-20 18:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋