i take care of my mother 87years old Im an xdrug offender my mother needs me she dont want anyone taking care of her but me.we just brought a house in victorville are other house in whittier it is now a sober living home got 10 beds in it.were not doin so good on morgage I have to get job to make this all work or mom will loose everything what should i do?even if im suppose to turn my self in .Can prison term get house arrest??please i can leave my mom i have to help her she cant do anything any more.if i go to prison she will be died in one month she is already going though depression i cant let this happen please someone no what to do????? its though Downey court any judges out there please some one i cant do this
2006-08-20 18:15:42 · 6 answers · asked by lynn m 2 in Business & Finance ➔ Personal Finance
Please get social services for your mom, she can take it for two years.
Contact a leasing company to rent out and maintain your properties and pay your mortgages and put the rest in an account for your mom. You can always keep in touch with them via phone and email.
When you are in prison don't get in trouble and do everything you can to possibly shorten your stay and just think about your mom waiting for you.
When you're out you should have a great chance for a brand new start with property and possibly a few bucks.
Good Luck. You can do this, don't panic, just start now.
2006-08-20 18:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Peach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've GOT to talk to Social Services. you and your Mom BOTH need to get the the nearest Social Security Office, and start filling out papers. And don't forget about asking about " Emergency Food Stamps ". They are available immediately. Also, look on the net, or in the Yellow Pages for other places to help. A Catholic Church is always a good place to go. They can also help you with other places to go.
Good luck, and God bless you and your Mom.
2006-08-21 02:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no experience in this, but did your lawyer or public defender explain this to the judge? Yes, you brought this on yourself, but it's not your mother's fault. Even if you do go to prison, there ought to be some sort of assistance for her. Talk to your lawyer. Go to your county clerk's office and see if they have information on assistance your mother might be eligible for. Maybe a church in the neighborhood could help you or direct you to organizations that can help. Other than that, I don't know. I'm sorry. I hope and pray you work this out.
2006-08-21 01:25:19 · answer #3 · answered by cool_breeze_2444 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sell the house, or get a second mortgage. Use that money to buy a co-op (which the mortgage might be cheaper), and use the rest of the money to pay for that mortgage.
2006-08-21 02:00:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why the HECK u wanna get involved in drugs.
2006-08-21 01:29:31 · answer #5 · answered by youngfellow 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't you worry, the government will take care of your mother!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-22 12:37:35 · answer #6 · answered by DM 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋