2006-08-20 18:02:04 · 16 answers · asked by Robert 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Have your attorney tell her, if you can not face her
2006-08-20 18:08:23 · answer #1 · answered by G. M. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm that's a tough one and i'm no expert but definatly don't let it go on for too long the sooner you do it the better, mabey if you find it hard you can write her a letter or tell her you need to talk- find a quite moment when both of you are relaxed- and tell her how you're feeling and all that kinda stuff- don't say do it in the middle of an argument but i'm sure you're a smart guy and will be able to do it at the right time
by the way by giving you this advice i don't condone divorces cos couples should try every avenue possible before divorce but well it's your choice i guess
2006-08-21 01:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell a women about divorce is tell her straight out but sit her down frist..Then tell her why you want the divorce so shes not always wanting to know why..But really make sure thats what you really want before you tell her!Babygirl
2006-08-21 01:13:36 · answer #3 · answered by Babygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gently. Do it when you're not actively fighting, because hot blood makes people say and do things that they wouldn't when they're calm. If you say it while you're fighting, your wife won't take you seriously or give it the attention that it deserves. Be considerate and polite, but please make sure that you really want a divorce, because once the "d" word is spoken, you can't un-say it. Good luck!
2006-08-21 01:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by crazydragonfly04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, what I wonder is: have you tried counseling or anything else to rectify the situation? You fell in love with her and married her for a reason and it seems like a cop out for you to just divorce her. What did she do that's so bad . . .?
Surely you guys can get back to the love you once shared.
2006-08-21 01:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by lilith4507 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just sit her down and be honest w/her. if ur divorcing her she has a right to know the truth, besides if the shoe was on the other foot wouldnt u want her to be honest w/u? honesty is the best policy.
2006-08-21 01:50:29 · answer #6 · answered by emilybailey1980 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's quite simple carry her to a nice romantic dinner and then pop the question, "Honey i want a divorce." Then she might not take it so hard on herself she might not even question it.
2006-08-21 01:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her:
" Honey, I don't want to be your husband for neither better nor worse, I don't want to be with you in sickness nor in health, nor rich or poor. I can't stick to my commitments any more, I can't wait till death do us part, so what God did, I will undo, because you are no longer young or fun, and I just want to be happy by myself. I really don't want to work this out, I'm a coward and I'm stepping out.
2006-08-21 01:30:48 · answer #8 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give much information, there is no way to do this without hurting her..so straight up, and please do not tell her you are setting her free to find someone better...that is a cop out. She deserves to know the truth, whatever it is. Good luck
2006-08-21 01:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After sex, while on top of her.. tell her softly that you want a divorce.
2006-08-21 01:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by rhkenji 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be straight forward with her. She might be blinded sided, maybe not but you need to tell her.
2006-08-21 07:40:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋