Where did the values & morals went to concerning marriage ?

Question

Marriage is what it is until death. ONCE married , ALWAYS married until death. Hey I do understand of being in an abruseful relationship ........ I was in it so I know what it is to live in. But that is no reason to get a divorce and than remarry to someone else. Getting remarry to someone else is going into adultery that means one way ticket to hell. If we are free totally from our ORDAINED spouse than God would NOT say what he said in Mark 10 : 11-12 , Luke 16 : 18. I won't get a divorce but my ONE & ONLY ordained husband { Paul Heinz } is for 4 years now and it's going to be more longer for him to get it. I feel so sorry for our 3 kids because they are going through a lot of hurt & pain from their Father's actions for his divorce plus from their Father's girlfriend being abruseful to them. I will ALWAYS live alone until my husband dies than I will remarry. It's the honorble & right thing to do. I feel so sorry for those people who got remarried to someone before their true mate dies

Answer 1

I agree with you entirely, apart from the "hell" part. Marriage is a sacrament, and it is a promise with God as witness. To break it is wrong, especially if it hurts innocent children. I admire your resolve, and will pray for you.
Good luck.

Answer 2

What precisely is the question? Bible is only a e book written a lengthy-lengthy time period in the past. it truly is authentic that the regulations of society re. marriage and divorce were comfortable a staggering bit, and now you do not should be stuck in an unhappy relationship only because you're terrified of "what the buddies might want to imagine". ideally, alongside with the freedoms might want to come the household initiatives - even if it truly is a lot less puzzling to be loose than to be responsible. Abusive relationships aside, I do agree that people are often not taking duty for the options they make - and it manifests itself not purely in marriage, yet in different parts to boot. perchance it truly is only area of starting to be up as a society, and searching for a sparkling foundation to construct our morals upon; i do not imagine that interior the twenty first century you could destroy out with providing "God's will" or the Bible as a proof or a foundation for something, the darkish a even as are over.

Answer 3

What if the first person they married wasnt their TRUE mate? What if they married that person against Gods will and have been miserable ever since? What if they finally reach a point in their life where they see what they did, and just like any other sins, they repent going against Gods will. I have a friend who got married very young just for sex. He would do anything to make it work, but even after 12 years, all his wife wants to do is party. He realizes that God has his perfect soul mate there all along, but he ignored it and marryed the wrong woman. I think its up to God to work in our hearts and show us what is right. None of us can know what is right for another person, not even by picking out scriptures. They can be general, and not completely apply to the situation. So if you disagree with what someone does, its really none of your business. You may not like it, but it may be Gods will in their life. Sometimes he allows us to make mistakes and feel pain in order to strengthen us, and we shouldnt be judged for it. We should all be loved because we are unique, and even you (god forbid!) sin too. Relationships are just one of the many realms we make mistakes in, so I hope you dont feel superior or anything. Because if you were living 100% in Gods will, you never would have marryed someone abusive.

Answer 4

I partically agree with you. I wonder what happened, because in the old days people just dealt with all problems and now everyone is so eager to get married and then there are always divorces anymore. What happened? My signficiant other and I have been together for four years and haven't gotten engaged though ready, we decided a long time ago we DONT ever want that so people should be positive that is the person they want to be with forever. "UNTIL DEATH DO US PART" or they should never recite those words.

Answer 5

he broke the sacrement when he abused you... God did not want abuse in the marriage.. as he knows the marriage will not survive.. this is not a test of faith or will by surving abuse,,, it means you have chosen wrong and thus divorce is your option out..you have not broken any acrament as the marriage in Gods eyes was not a valid one due the fact that he broke covenant with you and God, therefore you are free to remarry and enjoy the fruits of marriage. Gods plan was to never have you be alone.. even those who abuse... as they to will have there turn once they forgive themselves for there transgressions, only then can they finally marry
the values of marriage are kept intact by those who seek a good marriage.. those who stay in an abusive marriage, it is they who deteriorate under Gods watch the value and morals of marriage, as those are an abomination of what he intented for those who believe in marriage.

Answer 6

Same place grammar went! By the way if we wanted religious lectures we would be in church, not here. Whydon't you, at the very least, take your religious rantings to the reiigion section? Face it he left you and thats all there is to it and if you were spouting crap like this to him all the time NOBODY could blame him! Get over it and move on.

Answer 7

some care some dont now toward morals as well marrage many would mess it up over a fling rather be trusting in a marrage now. my opion/

Answer 8

Guess im going to hell, so i'll bring the ice....And all my friends will be joining me to, oh and my mom, and my sisters, yippee sounds like a party...

Answer 9

so true so true. my sister rose is one of those who should settle down and get a husband. preferably one of her own.

Answer 10

down the tank