Me and my ex been together for 4 years, we plan to get marry and have kids soon. but one day things changed so fast i dont know how to accept it? one night i went home shes not there so i called her where did you go? she said out drinking with a guy friend i only heard about once or twice, never met him before. so she came home like almost 6 am , so i was pissed in the morning didnt talk to her for the whole day until night time we sat down and talk about whats going on with our relationship? she said her feelings changed toward long time ago just doesnt know how to tell me? i told her lets move to another state and start over , she said give me some time. next night she did it again went out , i call her like atleast 50 times no pick up or call back until morning she came home like nothing happen or matters to her, so i told her to pack somethings and get out, cause i was so piss off she doenst realize i was worry sick about her . she wont admit it that shes with the guy whole night.
2006-08-20 17:59:24 · 12 answers · asked by Rocky c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds like she really doesn't love you. This isn't a true relationship, im sorry. You did nothing wrong, it is her that is to blame. I dont know man, I think if I was you, I would just want to strart a new life somewhere else and forget about it. But how can you do that if you really love her? I know it's hard but I have always had a philosophy on relationships. Relationships are very much like economics, supply and demand. If the demand is there, the price goes up, while if the demand is low, the price decreases. In a relationship the price is factered in how good looking you are, how much money you have, and your sexual experience I think.
2006-08-20 18:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by james w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 16:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD, your situation is exactly like mine...me and my ex were together for three and half years, she really wanted to get married with me before, but then i didn't want to get married then...now i was totally ganna ask her to marry me...but she has been hanging out with her old friends from high school, she changed to a different person...one day i found out she had some flirting messages with some guy, i couldn't hold things, so i had a talk with her, she told me her feeling has changed, i told her that was bullshit, you were so in love with me...ever since she hang out with her friends, things are just changed, then she met this guy who is completely different type, i am a tall, handsome, built guy, this new guys is a rocker, short, ugly, has kid...i don't get it, i took care of her, loved her, cared so much for her...but this is what i get? i still love her so much just cause all the histories we had together, and we have three dogs together...now everything has changed, i am on my own now, i been going out crazy, meeting ppl, went on dates, but just not the same...we are in the same situations, i am telling you dude, woman changes just like that! there are no loyalty involved what so ever...no matter how much u do to her, once she sees something more she wants, she will just change...i don't even know what to say, i don't know how can i get over this, but i'm ganna try my best...i still think the other guy doesn't deserve her, only me...i hope one day she will come back, but for now, i just got to do what i got to do to survive, suggest u do the same...
2006-08-20 19:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Boba 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember we are humans and humans tend to change if nothing in their life is exciting and i understand you feel angry and hurt and all other feelings but why not think like this....this is a good chance for you to look for a new relationship whereby you might thank her for doing such a thing to you when the new relationship turns out to be even better than the last... that is the only way you can feel good about the whole situation...
2006-08-20 22:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by miaiskitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont waste your time on thinking about her because you're too nice of a guy to be hurt like that you deserve somebody better and you could definately tell that you cared most about the relationship because if sounded like you reallt cared about her to call her at least 50 times just get rid of anything that ever belonged to her or put them away and start hanging out more with your friends try to party and you'll probably find someone whose much better than her =]
2006-08-20 19:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by x0xc0nfusedgirlx0x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear the story man, the chick does not love or respect you, leave her alone, go to another state and start over yourself with another girl who truly loves you. Good Luck
2006-08-20 22:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a new gf beautiful than ex gf 100% ex will jelous. experienced
2006-08-20 18:18:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm womam ar 24 I have bg already...I promise i will not chage!!! I only worry ab him!!! Hever, he worry ab me too!!!
2006-08-20 20:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by nonglnalak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and find another girl
2006-08-20 18:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by fatalbert167 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with another gal
2006-08-20 18:03:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋