ok, i've been with my bf for 6 months, and for about 3 months he hasn't said "i love you." he did for a while and then i told him i had trouble trusting him, as i do with everyone, and he got upset and after an argument decided that it was too soon to say i love you so he stopped. he now says he doesn't know how he feels but that he cares about me and wants to be w/ me. he keeps coming up w/ things for us to do together, he's affectionate, he takes care of me, he's forgiving and generous, he worries about my safety (and i know b/c i crashed a mini-bike and he got all worried about me), he's totally sweet and all, but it bothers me that he doesn't say i love you. i've asked him if he does and just doesn't want to say it but he says he doesn't know how he feels. i'm getting tired of waiting for him to figure it out and i wonder if he just does and doesn't want to say anything b/c it's too soon. any thoughts?
2006-08-20 17:33:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
give him time, becoz if ur madly in love with him wait if u will hve Patience's he will say say it u had only been with him for 6 month not a year. u can wait. some people will say soon some later. a
2006-08-20 17:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by @$%$%&*#@ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This chick once told me this when I was in high school not so long ago and it kinda just poped in to my head when I read your post. She said this "No MAN is worth crying over. And the one who is wouldnt make you cry." I dont know if that helps in this situation but Im just saying Caring and Loving are 2 diffrent things.
2006-08-21 00:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by rebel_slash_hippy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its pretty obvious that he does love you..But the degree of that love is known only by him.There are several types of love, romantic love, erotic love, platonic love and familiaal love.
Naturally he may be confused; we all get that way sometimes.The fact that you told him you didnt trust him may have set the relationship back a little.
Love needs time to grow;don't rush it.
2006-08-21 00:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by prettycoolchick38 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Patience. Some people take longer to sort out their feelings than others. Patience, and enjoy the time you have right now. Some others do not even have that.
2006-08-21 00:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by TwilightWalker97 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cant blame him, you told him off about saying "i love you". Your going to have to give it time or you can speak to him about it... looks like you have. He may be having second thoughts so if i were you i would be more attentive and affectionate toward him if you want to keep him.
2006-08-21 00:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by Foxhound 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love when you decide to love.
Guys don't often express their love verbally, but show it in different ways. You shouldn't have to ask. Whenever you ask him, you show him your uncertainty, and that makes him uncertain. The question is: do you love him? If this is so, then no matter what he decides, you will be happy for him.
2006-08-21 00:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take a chill pill and mellow out. Be friends first don't rush hand out. sounds like its going good. Don't push or you will loose a good guy.
2006-08-21 00:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
idk its just too soon for love
2006-08-21 00:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋