ok heres the thing i walked in on my best friends boyfriend, and he was putting a broom handle in his azz, and he had a mirror behind him i guess so he could watch himself and there was a vcr with porn playing in front of him. I watched him just for a minute just to make sure he was doing what i thought he was doing, but he never saw me. Now I dont know if I should tell my best friend, she will be devistated. Do you think he's gay, I dont really think he was just experimenting he looked like he had done it many times. Now when I see both of them I feel odd and I dont know what to do about it. Should I talk to him about it or her ?
2006-08-20 17:28:19 · 37 answers · asked by Crystal 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well obviously you should tell her... hes cheating on her with a broom! That is so wrong. I mean, he might be trying to explore himself sexually, curious to know what all the gush about prostate stimulation... but he is obviously a sick man! An watching porn at the same time? Is there no decency...
All in all, its none of your BIZ. He was doing something weird with HIMSELF, not other people. If you are really close to your friend, you could casually ask her if he is Bi, or done anything with guys before... or brooms... but dont confront him, dont blab to her, your just gonna "rock the boat" (or broom, as it may be) and start some drama between them, and you being stuck in the middle. Would it have been better to walk in on him just watching porn? Its the same idea. He was getting off!! You cant question someones sexual desires, as long as it doesnt effect anyone else... just let it be.
2006-08-20 17:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by dandy_punk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. this is existence and no i'm no longer asserting this is alright to self harm yet once you have scars there is not any longer something you're able to do. what's completed is finished. If somebody ever calls you gross because of the fact you hve scars? they do no longer deserve your presence besides. I even have scars from that too and individuals nonetheless love me because of the fact this isn't any longer the exterior that concerns. this isn't any longer something different from a birthmark or a tattoo. you will continuously be your self scars and all.
2016-10-02 08:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off all don't touch the broom. If he can stick a broom handle up his *** then there is no telling what else has been up there. You should tell your friend not only because she should know that he may be gay, but because she needs to know not to touch the broom handle.
2006-08-20 17:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by hotmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Er, well... That's odd. As weird as that does sound, I wouldn't doubt it happening. People use all kinds of freaky things to try and get off (this is where you find amusing stories of trips to the hospital and all kinds of objects being removed from orifices). He's probably not gay- just stupid and experimenting with strange things.
2006-08-20 22:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by ChiChi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow are you serious? ill give a serious answer. i think you should stay out of it for the time being. it really depends on what kind of porn was he watching? if it was normal, i dont think he would be gay, regardless of what he was doing. what he was doing doesnt make him gay, cos he is probably still attracted to women, just wants some other type of stimulation. maybe she already knows too!
2006-08-20 17:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay... I would first ask myself if i told her what would she do? because if she's gonna stay with him after u told her that its probably gonna be really awkward whenever he's around. u might be setting urself up 4 disaster in ur friendship. But i would definately want 2 know if my b/f was doing that! maybe he is gay but maybe thats like his thing u never know.sounds painful 2 me
2006-08-20 18:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by pixiegurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That fool is beyond hellllllla GAY!!!!
Get in they bizness he could be taking up the A from different doods every other night and spreading diseases to your friend. Tell your friend and if she dont believe your then so what your told her.
2006-08-20 17:56:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Its none of your business. Let him tell her if he is going to, but don't be the nosy friend that stepped in and ended her relationship. And also he deserves a chance to explain than having it be second hand news from someone else.
2006-08-20 17:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you like it if someone were blabbing your sexual pleasures to someone else it's none of your business. Before you say it's weird, weird is all in ones perception. If he wants her to know he'll tell her and she'll accept it or move on to a normal man.
2006-08-20 17:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by Roscoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u should talk to your bestfriend...if she is really your friend, she should understand what u are up to. As her friend, it is ur responsibility to tell her what she needs to know...now, if and when u tell her and she doesn't mind it at all, then well and good, at least uv done us part as her friend.
2006-08-20 17:35:30 · answer #10 · answered by Joy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋