I think I'm going on my first gay date tomorrow. We're suppose to hang out and I suggested we go for a walk in the park or something. Is that good enough for a first date? I didn't want to go to a movie because I wouldn't get to know him (so i hope i chose the right activity). I'm not the greatest conversationalist so I don't know how much I can come up with (i'm pretty cheesy). We hooked up at a bar and I think he likes me because I gave him a couple drinks and when we were leaving he kissed me on the lips, but not like a little peck, it was a long deep kiss (and plus he said to call him the day after). I had gotten to know a couple of his friends and I know basics about him. So I think I'm reading this well. I dunno I'm kinda nervous because I've never been on a gay date before and my 2 straight dates before were extrememy poor and awkward. What can I do?
2006-08-20 17:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by whodroppedthepotato 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A walk is a perfect activity to get to know this guy ask questions about things u can then elaborate on find out what u guys have in common u can say so i heard u like rock music and so on. Be positive be calm ur two previous dates probably went bad cause obviously u were barking up the wrong trees. But the best advice is be yourself and have fun.
2006-08-20 17:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by Eisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, relax. This might turn out better than the last two since this is a guy.
Maybe a movie would have been better if you aren't good at talking. At least with a movie you know what makes someone laugh. :)
You could bring some kind of board/card game to the park and play that.. Or just talk... Walk around stores?
I hate board games but I thought I'd mention it anyway,lol
good luck.
2006-08-20 17:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down, and try to be an natural as possible. Gay dates are not different than straight dates, and it sounds like you two already have a great connection.
2006-08-20 17:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by brand_new_monkey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 06:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by falls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind! Are you gay or straight? You said you went on 2 straight dates and now you're going on a gay date?! I take it you're bi?! Just be yourself I guess. I don't know. I'm not gay.
2006-08-20 17:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Jenna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great job your are in the right track move in the same way get to know each other procede not a problem you will learn from ur mistakes goahead.
2006-08-20 17:39:10 · answer #6 · answered by santhosh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your "straight" dates were poor and awkward, do the exact OPPOSITE on your "gay" date. That should do it!
2006-08-20 17:38:05 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do wht evr makes u feel tht u might get to no him. i would say dinnere or lunch date sounds better becoz u both can sit and tlk about each other and no each other better . and u will be facing each other. and u can from over there................... best of luck
2006-08-20 17:38:49 · answer #8 · answered by @$%$%&*#@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its no different than a straight date
2006-08-20 17:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you first gay date???you are GAY!! sorry no idea! sorry...i think that both of you will have a good relationship..he...he...
2006-08-20 17:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋