OFFICIAL SKINNY vs FAT: This is what guys LIKE!?

Question

I'm tired of fat/skinny girls trying to force people to say that they prefer them! So, I'm going to tell you what guys really like.

In general, guys like slim girls who have bubble butts (not wide butts), big/medium but perky boobs, medium thighs, flat tummies etc.

To Fat chicks: Guys DON'T like girls with rolls of fat on their
back/sides, arms bigger than theirs, sagging boobs, stretch marks, wide & saggy butts, pot bellies, thunder thighs etc.

To skinny chicks: Guys DON'T like bones, underdeveloped girls, sunken faces, flat-chested sticks, no butts, no curves, lollipop heads, sickly looking skinny, zero thighs etc.

In conclusion, you can be very skinny as long as you don't have bones showing and you have womanly assets - BOOBS & BUTT (Look at Victoria Secrets models!) And you don't have to be "thick" to have curves. Skinny peoples' boobs/butt stand out more without fat in the way. A pot belly is not something guys "wanna hold on to". Just being real.

Who agrees?

Detail: Guys like girls of any size as LONG as they still have a good shape... you can have a size 18 girl who doesn't have a pot belly but has a firm, big, sexy body - no unwanted rolls. Look at plus size models like Kate Dillon (http://www.judgmentofparis.com/images/KD11.jpg) or skinnny Adrianna Lima (http://alima.kmmod.com/). One is small and one and big but they both LOOK GOOD.

If you care so much about image, aim to look fit but womanly.

I'm talking to insecure girls who keep asking the question, "what do guys like?'. Answering them with "I LIKE FAAT"/"I LOKE ANOREXIC" doesn't help. I'm just giving them a general idea of what body to go for. I had no idea how to give a survey and I just wanted to know who agreeed with me. Of course I don't speak for all guys.

I don't see how what I said was SO wrong.

I basically said guys like:
- medium/large perky boobs
- butts
- somewhat flat tummies
- medium thighs
- no scary bones
- skinny/fat but with womanly shape

Is this a lie?

Girls OR Guys, this is an ideal, healthy, average body type - I was just giving details on the average, attractive body. I don't want people to go to the extremes of fat/skinny.

I'm not promoting anorexia/obesity - so what's the big deal?

Maybe I shouldn't have said "What guys like". Maybe I should have said something more general and unsensitive. BUT, knowing "what guys like/don't mind" is what all those preteen teenyboppers are looking to find out. They are young, and they want to know what's out there. If you want to change their hormonal decoding to make them not care what people think, then do that. But seriously - let them go to the gym at least knowing what average body to aim for.

Is it so bad if they read about a body image like this? Jesus.

teashy - you just sound sarcastic and bitter. When did I talk about the media? I asked a ton of guys in real life and online their opinion, not just my friends. That is called a survey. And how are my friends "egotistic" because they give opinions on what they are attracted too? That's presumptuous and biased. Like you're accusing me of being.

neenie I don't see why you want to seek revenge on guys. Both guys AND girls are curious about what the average opposite sex thinks! Your acting like those ppl who want to diss other ppl so they can feel good about themselves.

blondie - there are plenty guys asking girls what looks good or what girls like or what is "Mr. Right" like. So get over that.

sara - I didn't say what I said goes for evreyone. It's just average. And I probably did leave out exceptions....because I'm talking about average people!

Gosh, you make average attraction sound like a crime. Does the truth hurt you that badly?

rawkd - I never said big girls can't look sexy. wat the heck? Unwanted Fat isn't only meant for BIG GIRLS. For example, Fat in unwanted places like the tummy can look unattractive on average. A skinny girl can have a pot belly and an average guy probably wouldn't be attracted to that.

I never said big girls are ugly/less sexy. I just reported what guys interviewed weren't attracted to on average. It doesn't mean ALL guys hate pot bellies. I'm focusing on THE AVERAGE.

I'm confused, why would a survey make you mad? If you want to make a survey for your social studies class on the guys in your whole schoool - go ahead. It might be similar to mine or totally different. Report the average in your town and see how many people hate you for reporting it.

Jesus.

Answer 1

Guys like pretty girls who are fit.

Answer 2

It all depends on the guy and girl concerned. I doubt a really fat guy would go for a skinny woman, just as a really thin guy would not go for a fat woman. They must match more or less for everything to work out (including the bedroom department). I think it is not good to be in either of the extremes, whether it be fat or anorexic and you say this very well. There is a quote saying: "The Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder" and I think it's very true. One cannot establish general rules on womanly beauty, just as this is not possible on manly beauty. You are only talking about women in your "question", but any woman could do the same with man features and yet never be right because humankind is such a variety that there will always be an exception to what is said...Luckily...

Answer 3

Did you ever stop to think that some girls may have a combination of characteristics and not just fit into one category?

For example I have medium, perky boobs, flat tummy, small waist, chunky thighs, big butt, curvy hips and stretch marks which the majority of girls have whether they are skinny, slim or fat.

I also think your opinion is your own and not everyone may agree. I like your description as it sounds healthy, but don't expect many women to have all of thos attributes you find ideal, unless they are in fact, Victoria Secret models. In reality, you have to accept that women are not these perfect airbrushed models and will have some physical flaws and imperpections.

You have also contradicted yourself by saying skinny chicks have no butts and are flat chested and then went on to say their boobs/butt stand out more? A thick girl may have a small waist and flat stomach with boobs and butt that stick out. I'd personally opt for the latter, as it sounds far more attractive, don't you think?

Sorry you had so much grief, take care : )

Answer 4

Underweight

Answer 5

To be honest..I think you are wrong. Why should we catagorize people into what "guys like" its so stupid. All body types are beautiful. We put people into skinny or fat. If your skinny, your a ***** with big boobs, a nice butt, but still, guys like you. If your fat, your nice, but a loner, and nobody respects you. Like, wtf is that??? We aren't labels for god sakes!! If guys only go for one type of girl, why are there so many different types out here?? There is someone for EVERYBODY. Even people with "rolls of fat" and people who "never eat anything". I mean, girls, I think we deserve more respect. Why is it that people always ask, what do GUYS like in a GIRL, but we rarely see, what do GIRLS like in a GUY?? Is it that guys are soo cocky and confident that they already know that they were just born with the right "package". I mean, get real. Guys have just as many flaws as girls. Guys can also be fat, yet, we dont seem to catagorize them! Girls are always in the spotlight. It bugs me. But, whew, sorry for ranting..had to get it out.

Thanks for listening!! Oh, and, neenie64, you are SO right. AND these people are right. This isn't a survey. This is only your opinion. Learn how to give a correct survey before you give people advice.

Even with your details, I still think you are wrong. These girls are insecure because they read what people like you have to say.

Answer 6

really people have problems and sometimes everyone needs some kind of help. i think if guys or anyone is going to pick out bad things about people then they need to look at them self first!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

You know, It just depends on the guy. Some guys are turned on by thin girls with flat chests. Some guys are impressed by fat girls with big kushy buts and big boobs. Some guys like em like you like em, In the middle. The womans challenge is to find one that likes her that way she is. Different guys like different girls just like different girls like different guys. Some girls like lean but toned men. Some girls like chubby men. Some girls like telephone pole men(thin like JJ in Good Times). Some girls just like fat men. It all depends. You can just go ahead and speak for yourself. Everybody's different. Not all guys are just like you. But thankyou for the information and imput. I will note it.

Answer 8

And they say the media hasn't warped the Male's mind of what is beautiful. YEAH RIGHT!! Noticed you didn't have a picture of yourself for us to give any feedback to YOUR looks. Hmm, figures...and no, you don't speak for all men. It is YOUR opinion and probably the opinion of the egotistical males you hang out with!!

Answer 9

Not everyone's perfect. I'm not your desciption of a "perfect" girl, and I have a great guy who doesn't care what I look like. You're just a friggen TYPICAL GUY WHO DOESNT GIVE A RATSASS ABOUT WHAT A GIRL IS ON THE INSIDE ONLY HER LOOKS.

I HATE PEOPLE LIKE YOU!

Answer 10

Get over yourself. Different strokes for different blokes - what you find attractive, others may find repulsive. That is like saying "women only find guys who are 6 foot with chiseled abs and pecs adorable".