I'm 16 years old and to tell you the truth, I've been having thoughts. I really think that I want to experiment with other girls, and I haven't even had sex with a guy. I still like guys, and even have a boyfriend, but I'm still wondering...
2006-08-20 17:03:56 · 22 answers · asked by 0x0xGiggleBoXx0x0 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Could be just a phase. No one can tell you for sure.
2006-08-20 17:09:40 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I am thinking you are just gay curious, because real gays will have been attracted to others of their own sex for as soon as the go into puberty. You will probably just get over in a few years, but for now be careful that you don't make a decision that may hurt you or others. Talk to an adult you can trust such as a school councilor, teacher, etc.. I would suggest that you only talk to your parents when you are absolutely sure about your sexuality or if it gets out of hand. Don't dump your boyfriend, because it may only be a passing phase. Remember, whatever decisions that you make right now will undoubtedly direct the rest of your life. Choose wisely.
2006-08-23 12:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Scott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My problem was the same. I had boyfriends but I had always wondered and wanted to experiment with girls. I liked guys and dated them but didn't really want to have sex with them.
I guess it just depends on timing. I felt these feeling from the age of 12 and it was the age of 21 that saw me jump out of the closet.
All I can say is experiment with chicks if you feel the urge. I never did that and regret it. If you don't want to have sex with a guy don't but whatever your reason for not doing it or doing it just know it is your decision.
2006-08-20 17:53:53 · answer #3 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's pretty common for girls to experiment with each other, especially in common, which is why they're called LUGs (Lesbians Until Graduation). Experiment if you want, a few times trying different things should tell you pretty easily whether it's something you want to continue to do. I mean, you might also have always wanted to skydive, but once you do it you might decide never to do it again!
2006-08-20 18:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, it is quite normal for girls to have thoughts like that at one time in their lives, I wouldn't worry too much. Once you had sex with a guy you will know whether you like that or not.
Hopefully the guy knows what he's doing.
2006-08-20 17:11:22 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're bi-curious or simply "questioning."
Don't allow social pressures to force you into a box. You're YOU and you can only strive to be the best YOU there is.
Revel in being HUMAN!
Sex is a normal and natural part of being human, regardless of the gender to whom you're attracted.
Love yourself first. Everything else will fall into place later.
2006-08-20 19:01:26 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Exactly at your age I realized I like girls. I waited 2 yrs. to experiment. Now I say, why did I wait that long? But anyway, you won't be sure until you try it out. Good luck.
2006-08-21 05:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact is that if you have though about it enough to ask, you are at least bi-curious. Do what feels right and follow your heart. If you need guidance there a tons of good resources out there. Try http://pflag.com
2006-08-20 17:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by Nikki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're attracted to women, try and explor that side of yourself, WITHOUT cheating on your partner. Heck, I've even heard of some men that allow their female partner to experiment with other women.
2006-08-20 23:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
same goes for here.. except i'm a guy so everything is oppisite for me 26 yrs too, i wouldn't saw ur a les., but i don't know u; u have a boyfriend, how are your feelings with him, and my best answer it to trust your heart.
2006-08-20 17:11:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, you are a man's biggest fantasy!!!! Most guys I've dated said that their biggest fantasy would be if a girlfriend of them would make out with another girl while he's watching!
2006-08-20 21:36:06 · answer #11 · answered by poepies 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋