My parents pay the bills and he doesn't have any money, prospects of money, car, friends that can help, family that can help...nothing! I can't stay in this relationship, but it seems like I have no other options right now!! I don't want to throw him on the street, but he acts like it's my responsibility to move him out and give him money. And, he would take his dog, who I love so much!! What do I do?!?
2006-08-20 16:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by busty1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell his *** to take a hike, and hide the dog do you can keep it
2006-08-20 16:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all it sounds like he doesn't have any, and doesn't want any responsibility, and a dog is responsibility, so I wouldn't be surprised if he didn't take the dog, he only allows you to believe that he would so he can hold that over your head. Take the dog to the vet, have a check up done on the dog, and have the bill put in your name and pay it in full, then you are the legal owner of the dog and he can't take it. Next, pack up his crap and sit it out by the curb so if he doesn't pick it up and carry it somewhere then the trash man will. Change your locks and tell him to get stepping!!! You are not his MAMA and you didn't take him to raise!!! It is time for you to live for YOU and not for him!!!
2006-08-20 23:47:35 · answer #2 · answered by boxerpitk9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me, if he found someone like you who he can mouch off of, he can find another. Most likely he will move out only if you give him money. Best bet is to say. You have till the end of the week to move out. If you do it by then, I will give you 500.00. That is the only way to get off a moocher. Say I will give you another 200 for the dog. Dont worry about him finding another place. He will, trust me. Another option is to find another boyfriend and have him pretend that he is moving in. Have him come over and stuff often. You might be able to get a guy friend to do this. Pretend like you were drunk and didnt know what you were doing so it doesnt seem so cold hearted. Rember thou, he is using you! Third option would be get your father involved and say he said you move out or he wont pay your bills any longer. That always works.
2006-08-20 23:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by circusdejojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him...throw him out on the street..ask him to find a job...and......start a new relationship with his dog.....
2006-08-20 23:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by jub 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow he sounds such a loser, Has he made any attempts to change? If not, then I'd advice you to talk to him and tell him that if he doesnt act now and change, you will break up with him and i think he will get the idea that hes not gonna be welcomed
2006-08-20 23:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋