2006-08-20 16:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I SO know what you are going through. I gave my hubby an ultimatum, her or me. I told him to leave her out or I was gone. She knows she has ticked me off for the last time, and I have not talked to her or his Grandmother almost a year now.
Try this book:
The Mother In Law Dance: How 2 women can love the same man.
Tell him to grow up, he married you...NOT her. And if he wants to be with her...then GO HOME. You don't need him anyways. He will choose you, after all, you can give him something she can't. ;)
2006-08-20 16:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suppose I would be more sympathetic if I believed this was new behavior. You married it. You had to know that was his practice. A momma's boy is not a man - that is the first epiphany
If there are no children that makes it simpler.
These sorry souls that cant cut the apron strings are a source of vexation forever. When you have children have you any idea what you are in store for? You will be told how you are a poor mother yadayadayada and if you dont blow it then it goes downhill from there.
I hate to paint this picture but I think you need to consider what I am saying. His behavior is a deal breaker for me. You didnt marry his mother. He either shapes up or ships out
my 2 cents
2006-08-20 16:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kirk M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him he is a committed man and what goes on between the sheets so to speak stays there. There is no need for him to take your problems etc to his mother. Sure he will still want a relationship with her but if you feel uncomfortable re their level of conversation then tell him and if that doesn't rectify the situation tell him the next time he run to his mother stay there!
2006-08-20 16:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him that what goes on in your house should stay there. That he is supposed to be a grown man not a boy he shouldn't run to mommy all the time.
2006-08-20 16:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by momof3isme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut him loose! Nothing worse than a full grown man who is still attached to his mama by the umbilical cord!! Tell him that after he cuts the cord, then maybe you'll consider a relationship with him, but until then, you're going to keep your eyes open for a man who isn't already married to his mama.
2006-08-20 16:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by boxerpitk9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of being a beatch about it, tell him you want to keep issues between you and him private till you can reach a resolution.
Tell him to talk to a peer of his if he needs an opinion or maybe send him to Yahoo answers......
2006-08-20 16:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by toaddozer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find a man instead of a boy
2006-08-20 16:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by brinlarrr 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to grow up and find you a real man.
2006-08-20 16:34:47 · answer #8 · answered by countryrose24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the locks and tell him to stay with his mama from now on
2006-08-20 20:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by acid tongue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋