She is often sick from diabetis. She has not been well (health-wise) most of out 5 years together. She was good in that she helped me with phone, rent, gas, electric, and auto insurence bills. I am not, nor never have been good at this stuff. She's got grand kids and a daughter and son-in-law she moved in with. I am welcome to visit. go out to eat still be friends. I feel I'm at fault for her leaving, but, my health is good except for smoking cigarettes. Her health I questioned, because she never ate right, drank soda even thoiugh she was a diabetic with serious health problems. She tried and was denied social security disability. She tried one of those lawyers to re-apply. I still think she could've gotten some kind of job. But, now, I only have a cell phone bill we share, this apartment I don't like, and I need to move near where I grtew up to save on gas. I think I can make it, but I need cheering up, and some advice. When asked "Do you love her?" I have tears fall down my face.
2006-08-20 16:17:29 · 3 answers · asked by palon1957 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
enjoy life. just being with her can do it. if you like her more than that why dont you tell her. she may be od but love is love. take time out and think about what has happened and just enjoy life. who cares if you arent living with her as long as you can be friends that is all that matters the most.
2006-08-20 16:27:37 · answer #1 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
>HUGS<
I am sorry to hear this, being ill like that can be hard. You want to live a normal life, and you try.
And life isn't always your friend.
Can't you show her you are sorry? Can't you make it up to her? You obviously love her.
Oh, and stop smoking!
2006-08-20 23:26:37 · answer #2 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you have to go through this.
2006-08-20 23:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋