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Last month I began talking to my ex gf talking about our problems. It caused a lot of problems. My wife and I talked about it and are trying to work things out. Two weeks later I recieved a phone number and called the girl. She continues to bring up these situations. Is it good for her to keep bringing the past up? should my wife keep on bringing up the past ? i am trying to keep my marriage and we are going through marriage counseling

2006-08-20 16:00:23 · 6 answers · asked by jlp198421 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Yes son of a b*tch. If youhurt your wife then you can expect her to keep bringing up the past. You will just have to deal with it. YOu brought it on yourself anyways. MAybe you will see how many problems this has brought about and just be a better husband. She will stop brniging up the situations when you prove that you can be trusted again and when you prove that you are worth her time and when she gets over it. Until that do everything that you think she could possibly want and deal with her bringing up the past. GOOD HUSBANDS DONT HAVE A PAST FOR THE WIFE TO BRING UP!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-22 07:35:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You didn't mention if you have stopped telling your ex gf about your marital problems. That could be why your wife keeps bringing up the past.
And because you told your ex gf about the problems in your marriage she is bringing up the past because she feels that there is a chance for the two of you to reconnect. You have given her a reason to get you back.
My advice; IF you are serious about making your marriage work then lose the number of the ex gf. She's not your friend. Right now she's a predator plain and simple.

2006-08-20 16:38:10 · answer #2 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0 0

Past is past and no matter how we want to bring it back, it will never ever come back. Just live in the present with the future in mind. Bringing up the past will only result to some hurting and arguments over things which no longer exist. Isn't that a time-wasting endeavor in stead of all of you using the present moments in more important things?

It;s good that you are now into marriage counselling. At least, there is a sure sign that you and your wife still want your marriage to work despite the hard times that you went through.

And if I were you, I would not care talking to myr ex anymore because that would only make things worse. If your wife learns about it again in the future, she will again bring up the past and there you will go again just like in circles.

Once and for all, talk to your wife with your commitment that you will be true to your marriage vows and if you love her still, let her know that you love her through words and deeds. Surprise her with little gifts when there is no occasion at all. Be more caring and loving and that will move her heart to even loving you more. Make your union more romantic and exciting. That will make it more alive. I'm sure, when she gets that feeling of security because of your love for her, she will no longer bring up the past and with that, your marriage will thrive and survive the tests of time. Good luck.

2006-08-20 16:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0 0

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2016-10-02 08:27:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Wait a minute....the "past" you're referring to is in the LAST 30 DAYS! Are you serious? It's not like this is some long-ago past event.

If you're really trying to keep your marriage, not talking to your ex about your marital problems would be a great start.

2006-08-20 16:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 1 0

well im going to tell you from my point of view my man did the same thing when i found that number i thought he was cheting but he wasn't but the point is if she keeps bringing up the past then it will never be a future because she still holding on to the past she should just let the past go and start a new future

2006-08-20 16:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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