my bf wants us to be together but he's not working hes looking for a job, he called me a gold digger says the important thing is that we are together.
2006-08-20 15:58:57 · 20 answers · asked by tradergirl512 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is the gold digger and wants to sponge off of you! Tell him his remarks are mean and uncalled for.
I suggest you find someone nicer to you. This doesn't sound like a guy who should live with. I feel you would only get more negative comments about yourself from him.
Just because you don't want to move in with someone doesn't make you a gold digger, it makes you smart to go with your inner voice.
2006-08-20 16:05:52 · answer #1 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET'S GET ONE THING STRAIGHT HERE !!!All women are not gold diggers just the ones who wants expensive hit or something you not being a gold digger youre a woman who wants a man to be a man not some puss and not do anything around the house
2006-08-20 23:06:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not a gold digger. You are more of a gold digger if the only reason you want to be with somebody if he's making a lot of money and you want some of it. To me, it sounds like he's poor and doesn't have a lot of money. I can totally understand you not wanting to move in with him until he gets a job. He shouldn't even be saying that you're a gold digger.
2006-08-20 23:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by sobefobik 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
NO. The point is he's unemployed. Its not qn issue of you being a gold digger just because you would like him to be employed. Don't make the mistake I did and give up your own place to move in with this man. It was the biggest mistake of my life and the ripple effect of moving in with him took me a long long time to recover from. Keep your own place, even if he does get a job. He just wants you to move in with him so that he has a safety net, a security blanket, and less incentive to look for a job.
2006-08-20 23:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry he doesn't know the definition of a gold digger, A gold digger is a person who romances a filthy rich preferably old guy to get at his money. He doesn't fit the mold, now does he? He doesn't even have a job.
I call you a smart girl. Don't ever do anything that you don't want to do. Go with your instincts, if it feels ok, do it. If it doesn't and you just do it to please him, it will come back to haunt you.
Make the right decision, good luck
2006-08-20 23:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hes the gold digger! don't move in with him until hes had a good job for 6 months
2006-08-20 23:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he is the gold-digger. You would pay the rent, right? You buy groceries, pay the bills and he sits at home "looking at the want ads." I've been there HE is the gold digger.
2006-08-20 23:05:09 · answer #7 · answered by BLANK 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hahahaha OMG that is funny. Dump this loser .He is trying to get you to pay the bills for him. If he had lots of money and you wanted to move in right away then I might say your a gold digger. Part of the test for being a man is can he support himself. Can he?
2006-08-20 23:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he is the gold digger to me, im presuming you are working, make sure he still intends to get a job if you do move in
2006-08-20 23:04:55 · answer #9 · answered by jaynemynx 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm...it seems that he's a HYPOCRITE. Maybe he is the one who is a gold digger. Sounds like he wants you to be his sugar momma so he can live off of you and not have to work.
2006-08-20 23:04:24 · answer #10 · answered by it's me! 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋