My Friend is Crazy?

Question

I have this friend that's 13 her boyfriend is17 and ever since we went back 2 school she's been ditching How can I help my friend 2 stop doing this?

Answer 1

Did you try talking to her? To her parents? To your parents? To your teacher? To anyone?

Answer 2

Tell her you care about her and that she is being a fool, She is going to make her own mistakes and have to learn for herself, but in the mean time at least she will know how you feel. What ever you do, do not pretend to accept what she is doing. She might feel pressured to ditch by this guy, but if she doesn't get your approval, that might be enough encouragement to not do it.

You are a good friend for caring so much!!!

Answer 3

I had the exact same thing happen to a friend of mine when I was your age. Unfortunately, you can't stop her. You can only control your own actions in the end. Just don't let her pull you into situations where you will get into trouble. You can try to talk to your friend but she may be naturally rebelious and not listen to reason at this point. Ultimately, her parents are responsible for her.

Answer 4

Anonymously report her to the school office. It may sound kind of harsh, but if you do it without anyone finding out then you'll be okay. She may not know it, but she's lucky to have a sensible friend like you. No girl should be skipping school to hang out with a boyfriend that's too old for her anyways.

Answer 5

No your friend is not crazy she just wants to be with her boyfriend and get Gigi with him. You could talk with her or just wait till her report card comes out and she gets into trouble I'm sure her parents will find out and you do not want to be the snitch on this one if she is a good friend on that . I would talk to her and explain how worried you are for her .

Answer 6

Find yuorself a BF and ditch with him. dont u know all the word is going crazy ?
BUT.. But but be careful. u will be responsible of yur acts. u still young. and u have to give more importance at your study.

Answer 7

FIRST OF ALL, A 13YR. SHOULDN'T BE GOING OUT WITH A 17 YR.OLD. TO MANY YEARS DIFFERENCE. IF YOUR FRIEND IS DITCHING WITH HIM, GET TO HER BEFORE SHE ENDS UP PREGNANT. IF YOU CAN'T TALK TO HER, TALK TO HER FOLKS. OR LET SOMEONE FROM SCHOOL(COUNSELOR) MAKE A PHONE CALL REGARDING HER ATTENDANCE. I SHOULDN'T LIMIT THE OUTCOME TO JUST PREGNANCY, DURGS AND ALCOHOL ARE STILL A PART OF THE PROBLEMS OF THE KIDS (YOUNG AND OLD ALIKE). IF YOUREALLY CARE ABOUT THE WELFARE OF THIS YOUNG LADY, YOU BETTER SAY SOMETHING SOON.

Answer 8

You can ask your friends,are she play or she open-armed? If she are play, you advise her don't play,she be hurt her boyfriend's heart. If she is open-armed to the boy,you try to advise your friend part with the boy and attend to study. Another way is ask they meet in a place after two years.

Answer 9

-.- She shouldn't be going out with him... You really can't do anything, except tell her that she is ruining her life by ditching, if she thinks he will take care of her forever, then tell her otherwise.


I hope she stops ditching. [damn juniors and seniors..]

Answer 10

talk to your friend. have a heart-to-heart talk. tell her that what she's doing is not right. if she's not really into a serious relationship then stop having one, coz in time it might bounce back to her. if she won't listen better inform her parents about her to have better guidance.

Answer 11

sorry im a mom and she could be getting into trouble w/ that boy who probably dont even care about her. TELL HER MOM! i know it is not good to tell on ur friends but this can get bad.