you can't move away. I had this friend I have talked to you about before. In reality I was more of a friend then she was. I was Always there for her and her daughter and I found out in the last several months just how twisted and decietful she was about me. While I was living in her house, even though I had my own to go to but she told me she "needed me there and was scared to be alone", i found out that she was tellign all her friends, adopted family, and co workers at the news station she works at that I am a stalker, bi sexual, had been hitting on her etc.... Just MESSED UP CRAP about me... She even contacted a church I used to attend while I was going through a TERRIBLE divorce and was not handling it mentally well, and told them that I was doing all these things... I have NO money to move away and this city of 150K people, where I have been now for 13 years and where I know more people then I wish I did now, is incredibly SMALL! What would you do if you were me??
2006-08-20 15:46:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just for the record, I am not a stalker, bi sexual, OR in the habit of hitting on females. I am a Christian, pretty proud to be one actually. I just feel like I am at the end of my rope. Any other suggestions if your out there. I would appreciate anything you have to offer!
2006-08-20 15:46:57 · update #1
make a change for the better, get over it, move on and thank God for another chance, I did
2006-08-20 16:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by revmerly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know you are right, so hold your head up proud. Sooner or later she will have another victim and people will see her for the person she is. If you can't move then shop and do things in other towns until you afford to move. But don't let her chase you away.
2006-08-20 15:53:52 · answer #2 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, get a retaining order against her so she can't harrass you anymore.
second, greet people w/ a smile, chat and IF they ask about anything she said, update them briefly. ("She told alot of lies about me, I had to get a restraining order, she really made me crazy for awhile and i'm hoping it's over and I can go back to life as usual.)
Then go on w/ "life as usual". Things will settle down and before long you'll be doing ok and she'll look like a first class idiot.
2006-08-20 16:00:05 · answer #3 · answered by Sylvia H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words..go to your own home, make new friends and consider the source..if she has done this to you, she will do it to some one else and the rest of the world will soon catch on to her..hold your head up high and get on with your life..Your true friends know better and those that jump to conclusions are not worthy to be call your friend..
2006-08-20 15:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by jst4pat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold your head up if you are who you say you are the "NOISE" about you will stop;everyone goes through some stuff but it isn't anything that you can't handle with a strong backbone and a head held high!!!!
2006-08-20 15:54:49 · answer #5 · answered by wick3dwench 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch single white female. sounds like she already has. and save up enough to move if you don't like it. although i don't thik you need to. just find some real friends
2006-08-20 15:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her. Talk to her. if she doesn't take it well, give up. No one should be hurt like that by someone they are close too.
that may not be all you have to do, but it's a start.
2006-08-20 15:53:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and if anyone sayes anything tell them the truth and waren then about her mental illness
2006-08-20 15:54:18 · answer #8 · answered by letta g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋