Who are you planning on telling? Parents, lovers, friends? Seriously, sexuality is a huge deal for some people and a non-issue for others. Parents usually take 'alternative lifestyles' (god, I hate that description!) harder than friends. Lovers may feel inadequate with bisexuality since they feel they can't 'satisfy' you fully even though the issue isn't about them but your desires and attractions. I wish there was a great, right answer but there really isn't since it is such a personal issue. My brother is gay and came out to me 18 years ago but just came out to my parents a month ago, so it's really a matter of timing and comfort. I wish you well in your decisions!
2006-08-20 15:49:00
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answered by rasta-girl 2
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Honestly and wisely. Tell only those who already have no animosity against the GBLT community.
If you're considering telling someone you want to have a relationship with, first ask them about the issues we face (same-sex marriage, gay-bashers, etc.). Let their answers tell you how they'd reacte to you.
2006-08-20 15:48:18
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answered by Anonymous
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The best way is to confid in only the people that have a need to know. Otherwise it's nobody's business.
Good luck!
2006-08-20 15:43:59
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answered by a1tommyL 5
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Just Be Honest & Tell Your Family it isn't a Sin.Good Luck
2006-08-20 15:43:56
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answered by sugarbdp1 6
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whenever someone asks about your sexuality, tell them you're a bisexual male.
2006-08-20 15:47:30
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answered by Honeydew 2
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That honestly would depend on whom you are thinking of telling.
2006-08-20 15:43:39
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answered by blewz4u 5
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Just be yourself if some asks then you can tell them
2006-08-20 15:43:51
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answered by Anonymous
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just do your thing and when they know they know and if the dont then it was none of their business in the first place or they werent paying attention.
2006-08-20 15:44:35
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answered by landk916 3
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Uh oh...are you my boyfriend? Don't ever tell me.
2006-08-20 15:58:26
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answered by Nicky 4
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