When we got together it was a fairy tale realationship. The thing is I have only been with one other person (the love of my life) I was moving on from him. Well I thought I was! Now my Ex has a never endind grudge against me. Always making me feel bad. What I already said Im sorry what elese can I do??
2006-08-20 15:18:55 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I broke up with him for the one im with now. and neitheir one of us can move on what does that mean.
2006-08-20 15:28:09 · update #1
The thing is we still talk and I still do have feelings for him just not like I feel for the one I am with now!
2006-08-20 15:31:47 · update #2
He is not abusive or anything we just seem like we broke up on unfinished terms. But I am happy with the one I am with now!!
2006-08-20 15:41:33 · update #3
If you are happy with the one you are with now, focus on this relationship. Past relationships need to stay in the past if you wish to have a future with someone else. You can't keep bringing up the past if it has no purpose for the present situation.
However, do close that chapter you left unfinished by acknowledging you have moved on with someone else. You just now need to break that tie of not bringing up the past.
If you and your ex want to remain friends. Great. But first you two need to straighten this all out. If it won't, then best to leave it as is and realize some things are just better to be left alone. Some things can't be fixed.
2006-08-20 17:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex... you don't mention if children are involved. If kids are involved, you will have to do the best you can to work together to raise them. Always take the high road... your kids will notice it and respect you for it. Don't get caught up in the blame game or the yelling or the cussing or whatever... be upright and do the right thing. If you don't have children, I would sever all ties... really, dear, he's an ex... that means he's out.
2006-08-20 16:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by Mike S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u should just ignore him and not let him get u down cause he prob. since he has a grudge againest he feels good or that hes getting his payback by makeing u feel down all the time so if u ignore and not let him get u down he will prob. stop because he knows u dont care about it anymore and nothing he says will bring u down so he cant feel good or like hes getting payback because he knows its not working..so he will prob. stop...and u could also tell him to grow up......and just move on with his life and find someone else....
2006-08-20 15:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by hollister0618 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resolve the issues with him. Make him see that the two of you are better off now than you were before.
2006-08-20 15:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Erich H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him.If it goes over the board then go to the police.
2006-08-20 15:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Young 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him off nicely and if he doesnt listen...just ignore him or complain to your parents about him.
2006-08-20 17:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it time
dont talk to him
leave him alone
throw away anything that will make you of remind him
ignore him
2006-08-20 17:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by kay2angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the cops or get a restraining order
2006-08-20 15:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by just_a_fat_chick_9669 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IGNORE THE MAN!!! You are better than he/she is!
2006-08-20 15:29:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the balls!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-20 15:38:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋