I was out with co workers Friday night drinking. I was sitting next to a male manager. He said he loved me in front of everyone and laid his head on my shoulder. Then he went to the bathroom so I went at the same time. We were standing at the urinals with a half wall between us. I saw him looking at my di ck and I looked at his. It looked like he was playing with it...but I did not stare...I was afraid he would tell everyone. Then I went for a ride with him and he mentioned to me that his wife is fat. Was he sending me a message? Or was he just being friendly because he was drunk...or was he hoping I was drunk enough to blow him. If he had asked I would have said yes.
2006-08-20 14:51:48 · 33 answers · asked by txboy34 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think you should make a guys night out next weekend.
Get bombed and see what happens!
But, if he's married.....I don't know.
Someone's bound to get hurt ....maybe.....well,......
OH GO FOR IT!!!!
2006-08-20 15:22:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it definitely sounds like he wanted to do more than talk, I'm sure he was telling you about his wife so you knew his situation.
However, I would be cautious before acting on any of these things, alcohol lowers the inhibitions and he might not be so willing without the liquid courage due to his situation, but I think it is safe to say he has felling for you.
You also you need to take into consideration his wife, and if he has any children and how that situation will effect you, and them.
Also since he is a manager I would be cautious, because if you do decide to persue something from this then how will that effect you at work if the relationship goes bad?
What ever your choice, be safe and good luck.
2006-08-20 20:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by ak23boi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
!. How can he love you when you have never been out together. But I'll make you a bet, I bet that if anything occurs between you and him, he will tell all your other coworkers that your gay and you came onto him, and he will most likely try to get you dismissed, He suspects that your gay and is trying to prove it to all, but in any case he will make your life hell, and he has his wife to fall back on to prove he's hetro. Yes, he was sending you a message and it was that he wanted to f**k you. But if you had of responded he would have the proof he wants so keep away from this guy and find someone who will make you his heart and love you for yourself
2006-08-20 15:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what was going on, but fooling around with a supposedly straight boss at work is like playing with dynamite.
Avoid being alone with him in the future, and avoid situations where he might be drunk.
If he makes an overt pass, tell him to stop, and if it happens again, report him for sexual harassment.
2006-08-20 16:18:12 · answer #4 · answered by michael941260 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he was making a pass to me.He could have had to much to drink and you missed your chance,of course straight people will use alcohol as an excuse for what they want to do and once sober blame it on you.I think you should keep it in your pants when it comes to co-workers and your job.Hes married and it probably wouldnt do anything but cost you your job.Good Luck
2006-08-20 15:15:02 · answer #5 · answered by mustang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard the expression "Never piss in your own back yard"? Even if he was sending signals and he was hoping for some kind of sexual gratification, my advise would be to avoid this at all cost. In my opinion, it is never a rarely idea to get into any kind of a sexual or intimate relationship with someone you work with/for. There are usually always repercussions at of some type or another and it is better to avoid it all together.
2006-08-20 15:03:00 · answer #6 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you tell him you were offended.
Maybe he was just drunk and giving it an extra shake after relieving himself.
If he was drunk he might have forgotten to count the shakes.
Do not make a mountain out of a mole hill unless you are sure.
CC
2006-08-20 14:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky chic 379 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have the right to ask him why he said he loves you infront of the people and that was a revealation!If you ask him for a sex, he won't refuse!talk to him about the issue if he is not drunk and talk about his wife and ask him again why he loves you!
2006-08-20 14:59:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bruno 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you're "out" or whatever you want to call it (that he knows you're gay), then maybe he was trying to make a play. But if he's married, do you really want to be the one who potentially screws up his family? Be careful of that... I've seen a really good woman completely ****** over by a situation like this.
2006-08-21 06:15:43 · answer #9 · answered by pceej 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good advice might be "not to sh!t where you sleep". IF he WAS coming onto you and IF he did get a bj from you...what would happen next day when you both walked into the office and there was tension there?
2006-08-21 02:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have been showing his bi curious side while drunk as many guys do. He also may have needed a BJ but wasn't drunk enough to ask
2006-08-20 16:17:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋