Does it take two persons to have a chemistry or a true love?

Question

If you are attracted to someone physically and mentally, is it usually that person also attracted to you? If you truely love someone, is there a great possiblity of that person also loves you? Or can you love a person without ever that person loves you back?

I do know him very well, but i can't tell, i don't know how to tell if he likes me.

Answer 1

Does it take two persons to have a chemistry or a true love? Absolutely!Chemistry makes us all revolve in the name of love.

If you are attracted to someone physically and mentally, is it usually that person also attracted to you?
Chances are high though not always applicable in all cases.

If you truely love someone, is there a great possiblity of that person also loves you? Certainly!Why would anyone give his time and attention if at the end of the road it's just all wasted?!

Or can you love a person without ever that person loves you back? Yes,it's possible for platonic love affairs, infatuation situations and people who devotes their lives in a life that's pure & chaste like nuns,priests...

Amazing how love can attain so many facets,huh? :)

Answer 2

Most relationships you will find one person loves the other more. Its unfortunate, but thats how it seems to be. I think the problem is when we are younger we are in love with love and get transported to a whole new dimension. Our hormones are raging and we can mistake this chemistry for love. Its only after you have experienced life, can you decide what real love is. There are many forms of love and I do believe in soul mates....I believe there is a perfect man for every woman and vice versa....sometimes we are lucky and our soul mate comes along when we are young and we marry them and live happily ever after. But as statistics will tell you, not many people do meet their soul mates when they are younger because divorce is so great.

Just because you are attracted to someone physically and mentally doesnt mean they feel the same. They may, but you can only know that when you spend time with him. Nothing has ever been gained by sitting in the corner hoping someone likes you. Why not make the first move, ask him for a coffee, you will know then if the attraction is mutual.

Answer 3

I feel one person can love without another loving them back. Sure it's possible for one to be attracted in all ways to another, but not to have those feelings reciprocated.
Also, you might want to think about the differnces between loving someone and being IN LOVE with some one. You love a parent or even a close friend, but being IN love is something that consumes you entirely and that has to be felt and shared by both in a relationship. And why should either person cheat themselves out of that???

Answer 4

Open a Bible and read I Corinthians 13, the "love chapter". If you both don't have what Paul wrote, your relationship isn't based on what is important and what will last a lifetime, which is how long marriage is supposed to last. Or another way, if love dies, it wasn't love in the first place, since Paul wrote that love is the greatest of faith, hope and love, and therefore it should last forever. Love by the way, isn't only just something to be used as a tool or an object in itself. Jesus called us to love everyone, but not everyone makes the "right one" for marriage. You should also ask Him to guide you to the right one that will make your lives together what He intended marriage to be in the first place, which isn't just based on sex. I just celebrated 28 years of marriage to the same woman and have never regretted my choice, since I had followed what the Lord wanted me to do. I had asked 3 others to marry me, but now in hind sight, I know they would have been wrong for me and following the Lord was the best thing I could have done.

Answer 5

look you have two questions:

is it usually that person also attracted to you?
it depends on how the loving person reacte towards the other person, if he/she do things that is always surprising and driving the other person happy he begans to look about what is new what is the next step, then he begin to open listen and try to understand which gives a good inviroment of growing feelings

can you love a person without ever that person loves you back?
yes, but that will be nothing.

my golden role >>
To love someone is nothing
To be loved from someone is something
To be loved and love is everything

love = love for nothing

Answer 6

You can be attracted to someone and you can love them unconditionally and they may not love you back. When two people have a chemistry, they are mutually attracted to each other and many times this attraction leads to that wild and crazy kind of love. These are the lucky ones. It can happen to anyone, you included.

Answer 7

yes it takes two people to have true love otherwise you might be considered crazy or a stalker. No you can be attracted to some one and they might not like you. You can be in love with some one and they might not even know that you exist. Then you are usually infatuated with them because you don't know them as a person.

Answer 8

You can be totally attracted to somebody and they aren't the slightest bit interested, and same goes with people for you. When it is mutual and there's just this something undefinable, something that just truly clicks, that's chemistry. You can love somebody who doesn't love you back but you know, hard as it is, you shouldn't, that's really painful.

Answer 9

it is possible to love someone that doesn't return those feelings. As far as your current boyfriend goes I think the best thing you can do is ask him how he feels about you. Tell him what you want out of your relationship and see if he is on the same page.

Answer 10

It does take two person for a marriage to work out, but only one for divorce. It can be possible that you like someone, but they don't like you back.