he broke up with me about 3 months ago and i still have feelings for him. But he still flirts with me all the time, i'm soo confused.
2006-08-20 14:28:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Let him know how you feel, girl!
2006-08-20 14:32:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥SexylOve16♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to straighten things out. Be honest and open about how you feel for him. Let him know what your expectations are for him. Tell him that you're confused with his actions. If you still likes him and wants to get back to him, first find out what causes the break up and make sure you both put effort into solving it. If he thinks that he has found somebody else, then he should stop flirting around with you. It's time to come out and be open. No more hide and seek and dwell in doubts and question over whether he likes you or not.
I wish you luck in everything. God bless.
2006-08-20 14:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by Julian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's feeding his ego by flirting with you. Why are you around him so much that he's flirting with you all the time? Can't you stop being around him? It will be better for you to get over him and find someone else if you're not around him all the time.
2006-08-20 14:34:33 · answer #3 · answered by DeeDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people have either gotten back together after a break up or continue to see each other, or remain good friends. If you feel safe enough and comfortable enough to open up honestly with him, maybe you could tell him what you just wrote, ask him how he feels about it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck!
2006-08-20 14:33:43 · answer #4 · answered by jxt299 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's keeping you on a short leash....like if something goes wrong down the road or if he needs some a** he knows he's kept up a good face with you so he'll just give you a ring. Start ignoring his flirts etc. and get on with your life....
2006-08-20 14:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being honest is best. Tell him how you feel. Ask him if he wants to go out for coffee. If the breakup was not nasty and you are still friends, he should be up for it. I am still "friends" with my ex. We get along better now that we did when we were going out!
GOOD LUCK!!
2006-08-20 14:46:50 · answer #6 · answered by kitty angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest that you ask him why he still flirts with you after breaking up with you. is he serious about you or no? i hope that he is not playing any mind games/ toying with your feelings. i wont look back on this kinda guy.
2006-08-20 14:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by Shezzy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think about why you broke up....if it's a good reason, you have to stay away to avoid being hurt again. but if it was a stupid reason, then tell him and try to work it out
2006-08-20 14:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by italianchick44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.try to talk to him about. if you still like him and he still flirts then give him another shot. if you still like him then do it!
2006-08-20 14:36:21 · answer #9 · answered by andersonvolt93 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it another shot. If it still does not work out, you can always look for me.
2006-08-20 14:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by protos2222222 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Give it the best shot, and let him know how you feel, k girl?
2006-08-20 14:34:11 · answer #11 · answered by Kitty/Penguin Jillian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋