how do i know?
2006-08-20 14:28:02 · 9 answers · asked by Juicy_Baby_08 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ive never "expericenced" anything with a girl
2006-08-20 14:37:37 · update #1
if you are not having sex, presumably because you're too young, then you know you're bi if you are attracted to, have crushes on, and have fantasies about people and it's not about whether they're male or female. if you are having sex, then you have fallen in love or lust with certain men and certain women, and the problems and good times don't really have to do with what gender they are.
it's like the fact that someone is male or female might be something you like about someone (like having black hair or being tall), but it isn't a determining factor on whether or not you want to fall in love with them.
sexuality is fluid, and it's not something you have to make a decision about, not ever. you are who you are. putting a label on that might be useful for other people to put a category on you, to recognize you as a member of a certain "tribe", but you shouldn't be sweating it. ain't no big thing.
many people call someone who's "done it" with the hetero gender, but not their own (but think they might want to) as "bicurious." but honestly, you can be "bisexual" without ever doing both genders. you might be monogamous with the love of your life, after all. (this is true because there are people who go years without having sex with either gender. does this make them "asexual" or something else? no. you are what you say you are. that's it.)
2006-08-20 14:36:28 · answer #1 · answered by jezebelring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel the same emotional level, around a hot girl, as you do a hot guy, you might be bi.
Then again, what would be so wrong with that. I think the ultimate sexual person, is one that could swing both sides of the fence.
2006-08-20 14:52:18 · answer #2 · answered by dvx9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are attracted to both men and women, and you act on it and want to continue to act on it, you might be bi. Even then, until you have had a chance to learn a little more about life and about relationships, you won't know.
Take it slow, and don't worry about how you turn out. If you are, you will know.
2006-08-20 14:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm answering this question assuming you are a woman. You might be bisexual if you want to experience intimacy with another woman. Might. Have you ever been attracted to another woman? Have you ever been intimate with a man? You've not provided enough information for anyone to really provide any insight.
2006-08-20 15:00:59 · answer #4 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r rite to the extent of liking but if u've tasted already u r really bi bi now.
2006-08-20 15:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Experiment with whoever peaks your interest and don't worry about labels.
2006-08-21 00:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why are you saying you mitr b bi if you are attracted to girls u mite b bi
2006-08-21 08:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by bonnie3bd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no such thing as bisexuality
2006-08-20 15:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by lady_and_lover69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try it, you might like it....
2006-08-20 14:57:30 · answer #9 · answered by slyintellectual 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋