My ex's wife emailed me.. she refuses to meet me , or even speak with me on the phone. I have tried too several times. She will email from time to time to ask a ?? My ex and I have a daughter who is almost 2. She has never stayed over night before. now I get this...
**The kids start back to school Aug 25th, Fri. They only go 1/2 a day. We
were thinking that it would be cool to pick them all up from school Just wanted to see if you would let me pick up (2 year old daughter)from daycare that
Friday
morning around 8:30 so that she could go with us. This would be a surprise
to my kids and Joe, . PLEASE do not mention it to Joe. Please don't spoil the surprise.***
What would you do or say in this situation?
2006-08-20 14:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by concerned mom 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She has 2 kids 7 and 9 he has one daughter13 still at home from his first marriage.
2006-08-20 14:16:46 · update #1
sharon, you have asked me to look at things from your point of view in
>the past, now I am asking you to look at this from mine. If your girls were
>almost 2 years old, would you feel comfortable letting them spend the night
>with someone you had never met? bella has never stayed overnight with
>anyone other than me much less a whole weekend away.
>
> I have spoken to Joe a couple times about overnights and that I dont feel >comfortable with
>bella staying overnight until we have met sharon. I am sure you are a
>sweet lady and a wonderful person. I just can not agree to letting her go
>for the whole weekend at this time.
2006-08-20 14:18:43 · update #2
It is not like you are letting her spend the weekend with
just me.. I really dont understand it. But i am mad with you, just
disappointed. I was really looking forward to it.
Please dont mention it to Joe. I dont want him to be upset about it
2006-08-20 14:20:01 · update #3
Do not get sucked into this line of behavior. I would not trust her. I would not discuss this with her via email. She sounds devious. Ignore her emails
2006-08-20 14:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her straight out, Hey I have never met you. Tell her you would rather get to know her first, how about we go have lunch one day or something, with your daughter.
2006-08-20 14:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by Backwoods Barbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just being a pain...if she refuses to meet you then maybe you guys should consider taking her to court.
2006-08-20 14:22:59 · answer #3 · answered by WonderTwit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
E-mail, you look still in LOVe with her, i think you shouldn't give a dam **** about her
2006-08-20 14:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by sherif_mattar2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋