2006-08-20 13:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Dottie A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You don't- you're married.
2006-08-20 13:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by abcd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't!!!! You made a committment to another person and you honor that. If you have issues with the person you are married to, you ask her to go to marriage counsleing with you. The counseling will lead you both to where you want to be - either to stay married or tio go your seperate ways. You don't tell anyone else you love them until (and if) you are a single person again. Otherwise it gets real messy. And maybe the "best friend" isn't in love with you - in which case your telling her of your feelings will have change the "friendship" you 2 share.
2006-08-20 14:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you really want to tell her, the best way to do it is NOT to beat around the bush or chicken out... be straightforward, but word it delicately and considerately. First and foremost though, you should think about how it would affect her, whether she rejects you or ends up feeling the same way. Can you fare with possible rejection? Has she shown any signs of feeling the same way? Which is more important and beneficial to you- being with her, or continuing life with your spouse?
Best of luck to you!
2006-08-20 14:08:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of bad ju-ju? Karma? Yin-Yang? That kinda stuff?
I'd say that in every other circumstance it'd be a great idea to let your feelings known, but in your case you are on the brink of crossing a threshold that is absolute.
Whenever your thinking about letting that secret out, glance at the ring on your finger - it should bring you the closure that your looking for.
2006-08-20 14:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by Mongoose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,
How does she feel about you? are you both having problems with your mates anyway?
It may be best to make sure that you both feel the sameway and that u don't make any moves unless ur both sure that it's the real thing
2006-08-20 15:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let be man, why hurt the other couple.If you are not in love with your wife move on to someone that is single.Let your wife move on and find someone who really loves her.
2006-08-20 14:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uff I don't know. Maybe just straight out.. I'm in love with you.
2006-08-20 13:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Emina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a bag of s*** you dont want to open!
2006-08-20 14:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by info2know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋