why do us girls & women complain so much & feel we aren't good enough for a man? we're always trying to be RIGHT for a man. are men what make us beautiful? I mean seriously. Forgot men, i'm way too selfish to CHANGE MYSELF FOR A MAN. We beat ourselves up for men practically and turn on one another over guys.
2006-08-20 13:49:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
not all women act like this. This is a sign of low self esteem.
I love me for who I am, and guess what, my husband does too, and I didn't have to change for him, and he didn't have to change for me either. Learn to love YOURSELF for who you are and you won't have to change for anyone.
2006-08-20 13:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe some women do that, but I really don't see the point in trying to change myself for a man. I hate when people just think that men and our relationship to them is what defines us and gives us purpose as a human being. Congratulations, my dear, you're officially a feminist. Welcomes to the club. Love!
2006-08-20 14:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by Stina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are taught from a young age to sacrifice all for love. All the stories of women risking life and limb to be with a growly man... and then he suddenly changes into a prince and knows how to treat her right.
That's a whole lot of fertiliser!
So primarily I blame Beauty & The Beast and all those lies.
2006-08-20 14:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tish-a-licious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a man and woman loved each other I would think each would be able to change part of them selves for the other .
2006-08-20 13:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by Ajax Spade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Us girls need to be ourselves and the right man will eventually come along, that will respect us for who we are.
2006-08-20 13:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by livelaughlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre right It is best to find someone who really listens. Chauvanism sucks. I divorced a chauvanist. Now I have a sensitive husband who cares about my feelings.
2006-08-20 13:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you. We don't want to be lonely, so we're willing to do almost anything to be beautiful. We are judged by it for everything: men, jobs, friends..Human beings are truly shallow.
2006-08-20 13:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by makingthisup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't feel that way...I think we're all equal and I don't mean to offend you but it's comments and attitudes like yours that cause friction. Yeah some people may be idiots when it comes to these issues but don't make it a problem and it won't be one.
2006-08-20 13:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not like that.
not all of us are dependant on men.
they need us. and we need them.
can't live with them and you can't live with out them.
but it's not like....I NEED a guy in my life. or I have to change myself for them
there is a guy out there for you, that would love you just like you are..and not want you to change a thing..find him
2006-08-20 13:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by ixoyechirho 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ma'am
2006-08-20 15:33:46 · answer #10 · answered by godsnoriel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋