My boyfriend 's visa is expired and has to return home to the middle east, we dont know when or if he will ever come back. If he gets accepted into a university to study for Ph.d then he will be back in a year, but its all up in the air and I dont know if for sure he will return. I want to marry him, we were close once to getting married but I got scared and called it off... and he agreed that we were rushing... but now I wish I hadnt called it off... what do you think? should I ask him to marry me before he leaves.. will this ensure that he comes back?
2006-08-20
13:33:11
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I should say that I do want to marry him, but even if I marry him he cant stay, we has a residency requirement, when he goes home he has to live in his home country for two years before he can be a permenant resident in the states, unless he comes back to study, then he can study but will have to return home after to finish the residency requirements... I just wonder if I should wait and see if he comes back and then marry him when he comes back or marry him now so that will give him more motivation to come back???//
2006-08-20
13:50:40 ·
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