he says that it's hard to keep going after you come once. and I want to do it more that once.
2006-08-20 13:30:53 · 41 answers · asked by whateverworks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Many men find that impossible. After you're done you're done. I was able to when I was 20 ..but no-more.
What about a compromise? What if he lasted until you climaxed again and again and again. I think that would work no?
To do that, he's just got to learn self control and patience.
2006-08-20 13:35:35 · answer #1 · answered by Salami and Orange Juice 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well, actually, it really is difficult for us men to keep going after we've climaxed, but you have so many options to get him in the mood again that I'm surprised you even wrote in with this question.
What does he enjoy most? All men have a particular preference, but sometimes the wife doesn't particularly share his enjoyment. If that's the case with you and hubby, then I suggest that you change your attitude about his special interest. How sexy are you? Do you wear especially arousing attire? How do you think you make your husband feel while having an intimate relationship with him? Believe me, if you put your mind to it, you can entice your man for another round, and it isn't difficult, because, by nature, we are the aggressors. Make sure you've cleaned up after your first act; renew your favorite perfume--but don't overdo it; go down on him, and make actual love to his member. That's sure to arouse him, and you're on your way again. Just be imaginative and persistent; you'll get your way, which is typical for a woman to have!
2006-08-20 13:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by joeycapp1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after a guy comes once, its different than a girl, you feel tired and your penis just feels almost strained like it just needs a rest for a while. however, if you know how to turn him on you can turn him on agian no problem and get him right back into it for round two, maybe even 3, or 4.. or 8. keep in mind every time after the first time the penis will feel more and more drained and it will eventually even get to the point where it gets sore.
2006-08-20 13:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by pevehead 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women, generally are spoil by culture. If not taught by a sophiscated woman,a better descriptive term would be a women of the world. Only because either by exposure or teachings from someone endowed with this feminine sensuality, which they learn from women around the world. where women are'nt culturally spoiled;therefore,the dynamics of men and women sexual relationships are very much different. So with that in mine, women must realize that its their natural duty to keep the male highly stimualed(erect). And that goes with out saying, that the man is suppose to be able to keep the female excited enough to keep her well lubricated. No offense women but do your job ,if you got this problem its yours to keep hard !!
2006-08-20 14:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by slowneckme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, well, since that's a problem get a few toys or make him get you off first with them before it's his turn. I used to work very hard at work and needed to sleep for awhile first. Diet makes a difference though. Some foods will increase the libido too. More nuts if he likes them like pecans or what-ever. Goo luck.
2006-08-20 13:42:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is hard for some men to go more then once. That is why there is a thing called foreplay. Foreplay can be so stimulating that sometimes you don't even need to have sex. My b/f sometimes have foreplay for 3 - 4 hours before sex. Sweet bliss.
2006-08-20 13:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This gets worse as a guy gets older, but regardless of age, sometimes with heavy petting and such, a guy can get recharged again in a little while. If he is younger than 30 I suggest he see a doctor. Another suggestion might be sex toys, have him use them on you until he is ready again.
2006-08-20 13:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex boyfriend was like that. I think the older a man gets the harder it gets for them to perform quickly after the first time. Just give him time to rest up, oh...about five or ten minutes, then go down on him. I'm sure that will get his blood flowing again.
2006-08-20 13:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by Fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could do it more than once if my wife will help make me get excited again. Whatever you do, don't put on the pressure. That's a sure way of getting the opposite effect.
2006-08-20 13:37:48 · answer #9 · answered by RedC. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the little blue pill called viagra, or try teasing him and pleasing him after you finish the first time. Oral always works for me to get a second go round.
2006-08-20 13:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by jose g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is true it is hard to keep going after you c u m the first time. just have him wait about 20 mins and do it again but it will probably take awhile to get it hard again Good Luck
2006-08-20 13:35:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋