So i told my friend some advice. He doesnt like this girl and doesnt know what to tell her. I told him to tell her that he just doesnt like her and doesnt want to go out. He was hesitant and thought he would seem like a jerk. I told him that she wouldnt really care cause they dont know eachother very well. He took my advice.
She cried when he told her.
Now he told me what happened and i feel so terrible for giving him bad advice. What can i say that is appropriate for apologizing?
2006-08-20 13:20:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are not responsible for his action, or her reaction... The sooner you learn this, the better! (voice of experience!) If someone ASKS you for advice and then takes it, its on them. You can support him through this, but you cant do it for him (and God only knows how he said it to her!). It usually works to help guys understand how to say something to a girl... they can come across much more harsh than they mean to. Go read the first sentence again! :) Good luck!
2006-08-20 13:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by MellBell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you gave him the best advice you could, and no one knew that this girl would cry like that. You told him what you though was the right thing to say. Its not your fault. You didnt give bad advice.
2006-08-20 13:28:02 · answer #2 · answered by timberly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have minded you own business in the first place......never give relationship advice. Next, you did not twist his arm to take it.....but he did. Third, you are he are not responsible for the way this girl feels or thinks.....if she cried, then she cried and that is her issue to deal with. I see that everyone in this mix is afraid of being honest and dealing with the facts......you all need to be responsible for your own thoughts, feelings and actions, sweetie.
2006-08-20 13:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just tell him you gave him the best advice you could think of. he took the advice & used it. so its down to him. the girl will be ok she will get over it. she may have cried cause her pride was hurt. she will prob tell people she dumped him. dont worry about it. relax.
2006-08-20 13:34:44 · answer #4 · answered by KATIEKAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know crying is a knee jerk reaction for chicks, tell him she will be fine,and you feel bad so from now on you will be more careful about the advice you give
2006-08-20 13:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why apologize? Would it have been better if he led the girl on and hurt her feelings later? Next time,just let him figure things out for himslef.
2006-08-20 13:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she must of liked him, but you guys have so much growing up to do, being honest is the best pollicey
2006-08-20 13:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say you'll be her friend instead. Girls need friends too.
2006-08-20 13:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... some people just have to suck it up.
2006-08-20 13:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Jahrel J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋