she huge and dosent look good and she just dosent fit my "LOOK" and "LIFE STYLE" and i tried to lower her confidence so she would develop an eating disorder help
2006-08-20 13:12:47 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Well, that was brillant - that won't do anything but make it worse.
Has she been checked to see if her thyroid is working properly, or that she does not have a medical condition that causes her to be heavy?
How much is she in your lifestyle anyway? It sounds like you don't have anything to do with her, so why worry about it.
2006-08-20 13:19:45 · answer #1 · answered by D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honey! If your sister embarrasses you just because she's fat, then I'm afraid I feel sorry for you. Would she embarrass you if she had straight hair? Was gay? Wore glasses? Asked too many questions in class? Wore outrageous clothes? Etc.?
Why don't you see the person that she is? Or maybe that's the reason you're so put out by her weight; is she that good a person that you can't stand it?
Truth be told, have you ever heard the expression, "people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones"? Take a look at all the grammatical errors in your statement concerning your sister. Don't you think it's just as easy for your sister to be embarrassed by your lack of English skills?
Get over it, and try seeing the real person, instead of the superficial quality you raised. That's my best advice to you.
2006-08-20 13:34:15 · answer #2 · answered by joeycapp1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a very mean and horrible person!!!!
Don't try and lower her confidence. Try and help her She's dealing enough with the pressure of society saying woman must be thin to be beautiful. The last thing she needs is her family giving her a hard time.
2006-08-20 13:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW, i didn't think family members could be sooo mean and rude. pretty conceded if you think she doesn't fit YOUR LOOK and YOUR LIFESTYLE. Try thinking about someone but yourself for a change and learn how to love the way she is, maybe she likes herself and doesn't wanna change. And she really wont get anywhere with you cutting her down like that constantly. You are mentally abusing her and i feel sorry she has such a dick for a brother.
2006-08-24 10:31:04 · answer #4 · answered by bobbie21brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, just remember what goes around comes around. When your sister one day realises what a horrible, evil person you are and by this time you are sorry, it will be too late.
If your sister developed an eating disorder, do you realise she could die? Are you really that sick and twisted, you vile, pathetic person.
You are ugly inside and you deserve everything you get in this life. Don't say I didn't warn you.
2006-08-20 13:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you for real ? just because she is over weight and you think she does not look good does not give you the right to put her down and what does your look or life style have to do with her anyways? if you are worried about her health because you love and care about your sister. then you should tell her your concerns and tell her if she needs or wont's help that your there for her and will be there wither she is over weight or not because she is family and you love her.(quite being so selfish )
2006-08-20 13:32:34 · answer #6 · answered by just gussing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a rotten person that deserves to be hit by a bus.
Most people that have weight problems have them as either a health condition that is genetic or its because of a**holes like you that make them feel bad. I hope you get a thyroid disease and gain 400lbs. I would be embarassed to know a closed minded-petty little imp like yourself.
2006-08-20 14:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by h_tidewell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesnt help why dont u go to a gym with her your an *** if shes embarrassing you shes your sister not some girl in your homeroom.you should feel bad! encourage her dont bash her confidence that will make her even heavier and eat even more
2006-08-20 13:19:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are pathetic, she is you sister. You should love and respect her, and try to help her in an encouraging way. why don't you offer to spend some time with her jogging in the park and teach her how to pamper herself and give her a makeover, without making her feel ugly
2006-08-20 13:19:24 · answer #9 · answered by KC_Meag42 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is your problem?! did you ever stop to think that maybe its not all bout you 24/7? that she could be having issues with herself and she doest want to talk about it? you are completely self absorbed. i cant believe you tried to make her feel so bad that she would get an eating disorder! that is cruel. maybe you should try being her size and see how it feels.
2006-08-23 11:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by hello.goodbye. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋