2006-08-20 13:02:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because you don't tell him in plain language what you want. Too many women think men can read their mind or should just know what they want well here is a little secret we don't.
2006-08-20 13:09:33 · answer #1 · answered by meanblacktiger 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f is busy trying to get what he wants. And you are busy trying to get what you want. Which, as with every man, woman and child on the face of this earth, is the same thing. Everyone has the same wants, needs and desires.
However the way males communicate their wants, and the way females communicate her wants, is two entirely different communication styles. It often takes men and women years to figure this out. Both parties think the other insensitive or too sensitive. Until you do figure it out there is bound to be a host of misunderstandings.
Fortunately we live in a society where a lot of comedians tackle this very issue. They explain, with humor, the differences. Jeff Foxworthy and the tv show "Friends" are just two examples. Men want to fix things and women want to talk about things and the hilarity ensues in the miscommunication. Knowing that helps.
Good luck and make every effort for your communication to be honest, open and direct. Peace.
2006-08-20 20:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sit down or call your boyfriend up and have a talk tell him how u feel how is the guy suppose to understand u if u dont talk
so talk to him tell him how u feel and tell him what u want and u guys need to understand eachother and know what eachother want so communication is the key word
2006-08-20 20:10:37 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to tell him what you want. Make it clear and simple. Then you will know that he understands what you want. If he is not giving you what you want after that, you will at least know that he either can't or won't.
2006-08-20 20:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what you're talking about. If you look like your picture you'll have guys lining up for you who will. Good luck.
2006-08-20 20:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you want from him? The question is kinda vague. Is it sexual? Being committed to you? Home furnishings....LOL LOL..i mean what are you looking for?
2006-08-20 20:18:10 · answer #6 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are not wired like women. be direct and to the point, you just have to tell him what you want, he can't read your mind :>)
2006-08-20 20:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by martin.bones 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i'm not being nosey, but i dont know yet. Have you tried talking to him about what you want and what you need?
2006-08-20 20:09:17 · answer #8 · answered by juslookin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is not ready for you,or you need to teach him about what you want.
2006-08-20 20:25:08 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
teal hi what you wont in 10 words or less
2006-08-20 20:10:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋