I like this boy...he hangs out with the crowd who partys alot and he is a high school dropout. He dirtbikes alot and is really really hott. Like probly the hottest guy i've ever seen...I don't talk 2 him alot..just on a fake msn lol..and he says really really romantic things and is so cute...I have seen a couple pics of him and he is so hott... I fantasize about him alot...He lives about 30 mins away from me..I am 16 turning..and he is 18..I am in my last year of high school..I also don't have a lot of older friends that are "bad" eg. parting..stuff like that..What should I do..I really like him lol..I feel so dumb..
2006-08-20 12:44:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I also find myself fantasizing our apartment, sex life, romance, the whole thing and its weird..my friend likes him to and we talk about him alot..help!!
2006-08-20 12:44:19 · update #1
Continue to talk and fantasize nothing wrong with that but a bad boy is just that he will love you and leave you and take your little heart with him. What you are feeling is normal don't feel silly just don't act on it because partying can lead to drinking then other things you don't need to deal with at your age. Enjoy your teenage years find a more tammer bad boy that dont party they are out there.
2006-08-20 12:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, looks aren't everything-- he may be hot, but you need to look further then that if you want to have a relationship with him! And like the old saying goes, talk is cheap and actions speak louder then words....you don't really know this boy at all!! And second of all, he sounds like nothing but trouble--- stay the hell away from him!! He's 18(which makes you jailbait) and he's a high-school dropout and a partier?? Come on, you can do a alot better. I'm not trying to pass judgement on the lives people live or anything, but it sounds like you're in for a lot of heartbreak if you continue to pursue this guy.
2006-08-20 12:59:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL You're not dumb but let me tell you what: My friend went out with a guy like that [sounds just like him actually] but he acted so sweet and innocent until a month later, [after they started dating] we found out that he had had 19 other girlfriends the whole time AND he had sex with 6 of them!!!!!!! I'd pick one from the good crowd. He may be HOTT but do you want him to have tons of girls hanging around him and treat you like dirt or do you want a guy that loves YOU and have girls envy you b/c he's so perfect but wont go near him b/c they know he loves only you? Stay away from dirtbiker dude if you ask me. Stay away.
2006-08-20 12:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i think you're in the same situation like i was in before. lol.
there's also this guy who's got this 'bad boy' image and rep... he's not a drop out but her always skips class and stuffs like that, likes to party and all... and we only communicate through text messaging. and i also fantasize about him like you do w/ 'you boy.'
i followed my insitncts & ended up broken.
anyways, i think it's best for you to follow you're heart. out guys might have the same "bad boy" aura but it doesnt mean that they're the same people. wait for signs of him liking you back... take things one step at a time and let's see where it'll lead.
good luck on that guy! he seems to be a total hottie with the way you described him. lol.
2006-08-20 13:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you said you are only 16, calm down every 16 yr old has an affectation over hot guys but if he party's all the time then you don't need a guy like that.
2006-08-20 12:53:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he can change, then you should ask him out. IF NOT, THEN you certainly shouldn't be thinking about a future with him since he parties a lot. YOU'LL just be causing yourself more stress.
2006-08-20 12:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life is passing you by while your obsessed with this loser. Concentrate on your education, college, career. I know it's hard, but there's nothing he can give you.
2006-08-20 12:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by LifetimeLearner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u arnt dumb u just like a guy........u should go with wat ur heart tells u 2 do
2006-08-20 12:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by wish i could have my navy man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him.
2006-08-20 12:50:39 · answer #9 · answered by kirsten ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋