hit on men? Women, if you saw a guy and liked his personality and mannerisms, why not approach him. I realize a skant few do but it is far from the norm. Havent women progressed in this so called equal oppurtunity society. The burden is still on the man in many of the courting rituals. I really believe it would make the meeting process easier.
2006-08-20 12:22:59 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I asked that last week. Many women feel that they are downgrading themselves by asking men out, & they told me that if I were to approach a man or ask a man out or ask him to marry me, then I would sound too depserate. OK Well, I don't see why it's not considered desperate for a man to do the same for a woman.
2006-08-20 12:30:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I for one think its a great concept, but on the other hand it would seem that they would appear cheap and easy with that in mind some women don't take the initiative which I think is a little hypocritical as women want to be treated as equals. I am all for getting what I want and if its a man I want I am happy to do the courting.
2006-08-20 12:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by kyleemckenzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've never had trouble approaching a man I am interested in. Far from the norm may just be your personal experience. It would be interesting to see if anyone has actually done research on this.
2006-08-20 12:29:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I like a guy enough... I'll totally make the first move. I also don't make it impossible for guys to hit on me if I want them too. I'm approachable. And I agree, I find it very irritating when girls wait for guys to make the first move... which is more often than not. Good luck in the dating world.
2006-08-20 12:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by lana89xx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easier, maybe. But not the best idea.
The reasons for women to be cautious are mostly biological.
Women have the most to lose, when relationships become serious, a child is produced, and then they go bad.
Men are the "hunters" -- and that's something that isn't going to change. So, go get 'em.
2006-08-20 12:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do approach men, but if I have to rip open my blouse to get him to get the point then we've got a problem. Most of the men I approach seem kind of scared. If a 5'10" gorgeous red-head came up and batted her eyelashes at you would you be able to take it from there? Most men turn into blubbering idiots.
2006-08-20 12:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do... and when i hit on guys... im usually obscene or cheesey...
and my friends do, if they think someones "HOT" enough
also, i often make the first move... initiate firsts...
but i wouldnt call courting rituals a burden... since the end result is often pleasant...
or atleast leads to some makin woopie
2006-08-20 12:29:42 · answer #7 · answered by Crankers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Far too many guys I know tell me they prefer to do the 'hitting' on. For them it's all about the chase and all that - the few times I've tried to hit on a guy - they usually are disinterested. So I gave up trying.
2006-08-20 12:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by Kleineganz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do hit on men. I see it all the time with my sons in their 20s.
2006-08-20 12:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by dey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never hesitate to let a man know that I found him interesting,and I would hope a man would accept it as flattering,if he was not interested in me I would accept that also.If I invited him out to supper I wounld not have a problem paying for the meal and movie
2006-08-20 12:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋