2006-08-20 12:16:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Yup...Its our first time...
2006-08-20 12:22:49 · update #1
Well when my husband and I got married, friends told us about KY jelly. Make sure you get some of that stuff! REALLY IMPORTANT! I don't recommend trying any of the tingly, warming, stuff until you are used to having sex!
I liked my husband on top, because i could tell him when to go and when to stop, i felt in control. Some women would say they preferred to be on top, because they felt they had more control then. Don't plan on pleasing her any time soon, it takes a while for her to get used to it! Esp going from never having it to having it a lot! Be gentle, very gentle, let her control how far you go, and honestly have fun! You may not even go the entire way your first night. It took my husband and I about 2 weeks to really get used to it, and have it feel good!
Congrats and good luck!
2006-08-20 12:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
awww, it ya'lls first time...
well, since this is the case, take it slow. the setting is probably more important than anything else. you should light up a bunch of tealights all over the room, have some rose-petals romantically placed all over the bed, dresser, etc. Take the time to please HER...orally and the like. Touch her body as though it was the last time you were going to touch her. caress the nape of her neck (and her back - -most women LOVE this!!). Kiss her softly and gently. When she is ready, you will know. the look in her eyes will tell you. There's no real position that pleases a woman more than the other. I mean, when the experience is not there, any way is good. Just allow her to ease into pleasing you and herself. many women like to be on top. I like the bottom...also, there's the position where you are behind her...
good luck and don't worry about the position. when you are both ready, it will come naturally...
have fun :D
2006-08-20 19:32:41 · answer #2 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Being both you're first time... Take it slow. Everything will come to its time where your soon to be wife will open up to you and will let you know which positions or styles she enjoys most. Also just take notes on which positions or styles she asks for you to repeat. That was how I am with my husband, it took me a while to really get into the groove. And sometimes still I get shy to be nasty or something with him.
Anyway.... Take it Slow and easy.
Congrats on your wedding.
2006-08-21 03:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
69
2006-08-21 08:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by Edmund l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you and your partner will figure that one out . . . she can tell you which is most pleasurable for her. After all, that the experimentation is part of the fun of being a newlywed.
2006-08-20 19:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by whozethere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Use the G Force
2006-08-20 20:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try 69 ( she sucks ur dick while u lick her *****) you two will literally form the number 69.
Then do it doggy style ( **** her from the back)
2006-08-20 22:44:35 · answer #7 · answered by Jo-Anne C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well all i can say is be jentell dontbe to rough but dont be to soft good luck
2006-08-20 19:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spreading her legs.
2006-08-20 19:22:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
get freaky! doggy, reverse cowgirl, anything but missionary!! pull he hair too, she'll like it!!
2006-08-20 19:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋