2006-08-20 12:13:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i dont think so...i heard that there are such things as girl crushes...even tho your straight. Thats probably what you have....a girl crush. no biggie!
2006-08-20 12:36:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes a little more than attraction to be bi
2006-08-20 12:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Greek Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Personally, I don't like to think about it being Bi, Straight gay, etc. I firmly believe that we are attracted to PEOPLE, not gender. I've heard plenty of stories about straight girls falling in love with other women, but they don't consider themselves lesbians, an vice versa. I've also heard of gay men falling in love with a woman and staying together forever... proof of the whole attracted to people thing.
2006-08-20 13:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Stina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps. How deep is your affection for this girl? Does her very presence drive you absolutely crazy (the good kind of crazy--not Asylum-crazy)? Do you get all nervous and self-conscious around her? Is she constantly in your thoughts? Can you picture yourself in a meaningful, perhaps even sexual, relationship with her? Do you kick yourself every time you miss your opportunity to talk to her, or be with her in some way, shape, or form?
If you can relate to any of these things, or have had similar experiences, then yes, I would say that you were probably bisexual. However, this is just my opinion.
2006-08-20 16:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say while it is an 'attraction' you are bi-curious. If you take the feelings further and it works for you then you I would say you are bi.
2006-08-20 13:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by phantasy_one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah, i've had the hots for like 1 girl my whole life but i think about guys all the time so I guess that makes me gay. I might be 2% straight......not too interested in it though, it's have to be a woman that never wanted to have sex - at least with me lol
2006-08-20 15:40:18 · answer #6 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls fancy people of the same sex all the time. Depends if you start to have a sexual relationship with people of the same gender really, then you are bi-sexual. But just looking and admiring doesnt really indicate anything. xx
2006-08-20 12:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be attracted to her, fantasize about being intimate with her, and even seek to be intimate with her without needing to be labeled bisexual. Your feelings toward her may simply be an aberration in your sexual orientation. If you've never felt these things toward another woman or do not have the desire to act on them then you can "proudly" wear your "I'm straight!" pin.
2006-08-20 15:56:03 · answer #8 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just one girl than no. I have a lot of straight friends who have the hots for som actresses but it doesn't go any further than that. Now if you think sexually about this girl you might be bisexual...which I don't believe in.
2006-08-20 12:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read up on that whole "Everyone is bisexual to some extent" theory. You're the poster child for it. And to answer your question, don't worry about labels. If you're attracted to someone then go for them, reguardless of what's between their legs.
2006-08-21 00:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theoretically, yes. In my experience, though, every gay guy has "that one girl." Whether or not it would actually work, though, I don't know (I'm pretty sure it wouldn't have in my case). Also, lots of girls have "girl crushes," too. Really, almost everyone is at least a little bit bisexual, whether they identify as such or not.
2006-08-20 12:54:02 · answer #11 · answered by Patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋