I've changed my account and name ,everything several times 'cos a lady is interested in me.She's sent photos of her miaow and while she's pretty,it's kinda freakin me now.I'm into guys(but have occasional thoughts of other women),have tried being polite,forthright,even rude and ignoring her has made her more interested.suggestions please?
2006-08-20 11:56:55 · 22 answers · asked by BellaDonna 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Ignore in IM, delete the e-mail w/o reading.
I bet she's sending that kind of thing to 20 other girls, and only continues with those who reply.
2006-08-20 12:00:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you're truly not interested, and don't feel that you have encouraged her in any way, collect any proof you have telling this woman to stop contacting you, write down the steps you have taken (changing your e-mail, etc.), write down where this woman first got in contact with you and what actions she's taken that have made you uncomfortable, and accept that this isn't about a woman trying to force you into being gay, but a woman that has an unhealthy obsession, and hasn't picked up your signals that you're not interested. If you hear from her again, tell her once again that you don't want to hear from her again, that you've already collected the evidence you need to prove that she's harrassing you, and that you will contact the proper authorities as needed. You may also wish to report her to yahoo, or whatever e-mail service she uses, and to your own e-mail service.
2006-08-20 12:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by Amersmanders 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum lesbians i understand do not favor to get mixed up with bisexuals. even with the undeniable fact that those who do are conscious that some bi women love women a lot more effective than men, and some bi women finally end up loving lesbians a lot that they get bored in men. there is not any actual swaying if both activities like it. If a woman is really right now, then she purely is surely not swayed. And certain, it really is incorrect for every person to ask out someone (gay or right now) in the journey that they allow you to realize they don't look to be in contact. No means no - appreciate it.
2016-11-30 21:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just ignore her. If she continues and it bothers you, you should report her to her email provider and tell them she's cyberstalking and harrassing you.
Whether you have thoughts about other girls or not, that doesn't make you bisexual or gay. From all the research I've read, everyone has had at least some form of bisexuality run through their brain at least once in their life.
And these thoughts do NOT mean that you deserve to be harrassed.
Good luck!!
2006-08-20 12:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by libraryn71 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with her and tell her you are not interested in her. Even if you are having thoughts of women or whatever, tell her that it has nothing to do with her. That you aren't into her and for her not to contact you.
If she is still bothering you after all that, then she is a stalker and tell her again that you are not interested and if she keeps bothering you, that you will tell the authorities.
Maybe she thinks you are "confused" but again, just tell her that it's really not her business and you aren't interested in her. Don't contact her again after that just so she doesn't think you are interested.
hope that helps.
2006-08-20 12:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by GalPokerPlayer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does she keep finding you if you change your display picture and name to somethimg TOTALLY different she should not be able to.Maybe you are using a name and picture that is too similar making it easy for her to find you. If she does.... just keep ignoring her.She will eventually move on.
2006-08-20 12:03:05 · answer #6 · answered by purple rain 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um, get a restraining order? Go to the police and tell them she's stalking you online? Basically, it's time to get teh coppers involved.
2006-08-21 00:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. After you've changed your account, she'll hopefully get the hint. If not, you need to report her. It's called STALKING AND HARASSMENT.
2006-08-20 14:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by REDHED4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just add her to your ignore list. That should help cut down communication.
And if you're feelin a little frisky, you can always post a pic and let us decide? ;-) hehehe
2006-08-20 12:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed you still have your email address exposed for others to see. How are you going to get rid of her if your showing it....hide it. If it's on your IM addy you can place her on ignore and she can't come through.
2006-08-20 12:40:18 · answer #10 · answered by Lipstick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋