if you could change one piece of your personality?

Question

what would youchange and why? Personally I'd give myself theconfidence to accept compliments, instead of putting myself downall the time, or maybe be strong enough to say what is really bothering me, instead of keeping it all inside

Answer 1

More confidence in my abilities!

Answer 2

I believe the part of me that needed changing has been changed, I had anger problems and was often violent even towards those I loved. regret for hurting people broke me down inside until I became who and what I wanted to be, a pacifist, yet I still feel the need to return to the dojo and pick up where I left off, sometimes the only thing to change a person inside is the hurt of losing someone they can't live without.
I owe that special someone an appology and a thank you for messing me up enough to make that change, someday I hope to find the strength and courage to face her and say sorry for what I did. Ironicaly I feel she has been there more for me since she has been gone, almost like a guardian angel watching over me.
I have no excuse or explaination other than I was a fool.
with or without her she is my fate, my saviour and destruction.
the soul I owe my life to, the life I owe my soul to,
a demon, an angel, a lover and fighter, both hot and cold,
a poem to write, a story to be told, a candle to a moth, a firefly in the night, my light, my flame, my Goddess, I dare not speak her name. everything has changed yet remains the same, my sorrow, my pain, could my hope ever hold me again.

Answer 3

I agree with you, I would love to be more confident when it comes to how other people see me...I had a shity ex boyf that constantly put me down and now whenever a lad gives me a compliment I just think he is pitying me or after something else when in fact he may like me but i will never know because i don't give him the chance....it would also be nice to be confident enough to tell someone how you really feel about them without the fear of rejection holding you back!

Answer 4

Me, I'd gladly give up my mouth. It has gotten me into soooo much crap, I just can't seem to keep it closed at the right time. And I wasn't like tthis before the coma, My parents say I woke up a different person, Yup. Just don't know when to keep my big mouth quiet sometimes, I use to be so so so so shy. Not no more.

Answer 5

To accept compliments with the good grace they are given with, never been very good at accepting compliments, guess it goes back to been a kid and some bully saying I was pretty, I smiled and was just about to say thanks when he said pretty disgusting, those thing tend to stay with you and you end not trusting compliments as you are always waiting for the punch line.

Answer 6

i would not be so much of a doormat and take crap from people .. or trust them to much - they used me for my genreousity and i would give anyone my last dollar to a person and og huyngry which i have. i am sociable, humorus, and god knows i have more patience with stupid, rude f-ups people in my life. i have taken abuse and went into backruptcy on the count of being a nice girl to all those who came into my life.. I would want to chance and be more tight with my decisions for saying NO I use to be lack of confidence and give give give to be liked. self worth has to start in the upbringing from ur parents that security which some of us lack that.. security praise and self worth

Answer 7

hmm if i could change one thing about my personality it would be my short temper, i take offense to a lot of things sometimes and get mad kinda easily like if someone gets on my nerves lol. and also i wish i could stop nagging my boyfriend about checking out other girls, no matter how much it hurts...
and i also would change that im terrrrrrrified to talk to the ppl that i work with...lol

Answer 8

confidence and something that you can say your opitons with out getting slapped, turned down or have courage to express myself and tell someone what is bothering me inside without any problems

or just something other people have, what i dont have, charms,luck,attentions,love, respect or friends that really do care or parents


even better, chance to grab oppuntity or fast enough to get it before it slides away

Answer 9

Lol, I like you attitude, Donna.
As for me, wish I was less impatient (this is only the tip of the iceberg, you can't imagine the rest - too embarrassing).

Answer 10

I would give myself confidence so I could just go up to people and talk to them .It hard to be outging.I totaly agree with what you put in your question.

Answer 11

if i could change one piece of my personality it would be to except the things that i cant change about myself and learn how to get along with other girls