I told this girl that" a guy" had come up to me at school and "told me he liked her", she dosent go to the same school, and so she was trying to figure out who it was and finnaly i told her, I was lieing and that i was the guy. Then she said goodbye, and she hasent talked to me since exceprt once on myspace, where i found out that she was mad at me becuse i lied to her. since then she has deleted me from myspace, and from her messnger, i really care about this girl, and I need some avice on what to do
2006-08-20 10:57:51 · 26 answers · asked by mr. stressed out 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
YOU SUCK!
2006-08-20 11:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Hendrix_lover 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You really just need to tell her that you are sorry. Not on the phone. Not through e-mail. In person. Right after school meet her. Or if she will talk to you for a second ask her to meet you somewhere.
This is the Time where I would tell her, unplugged, that you are extremely sorry and that you care about her. You need to just Follow your heart and tell her what you think you should say. Not what people on yahoo answers thinks you should say. I hope it all works out. p.s If it has been less then two days make sure you give her three days to cool off. She might need that time to process and think about what you said.
pps I think it is sweet what you said do not listen to the other people I think they have some anger issues.
2006-08-20 11:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you're a total jerk and what not. I figure you're shy and didn't want to come right out and say and you thought that would be a good way of getting it out...Which is kind of sweet.
Try calling her or messaging/emailing her to tell her that you're sorry and how much you care about her. Tell her you're sorry for lying but you didn't mean for it come out as badly as it did. You just couldnt think of any other way of telling her you liked her.
I think she's being a tad unreasonable. And I think that if she liked you back then she'd of said something. She may be trying to avoid you now.
Try the message/call thing...But if she's still mad then man...she's a bit well...I don't really want to say it because it may offend you since you like her and all...but...it's a word that ryhmes with itchy...
2006-08-20 11:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a rose to her work or school, put a rose on her car. Send her or give her a rose in person with an invitation for dinner as friends only, or send a rose and tell her you would like to say sorry for lying to her and you really want to be her friend, and that you messed up and wanted to treat her to a nice dinner, you will pay for it. Give her the date and time, and location. And it never hurts to ask if you can start over as friends to work your way up before you lied.
2006-08-20 11:08:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 21:38:05 · answer #5 · answered by ferryman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...have you tried calling her? ...if she doesn't want to answer the phone...then email her or go to her house and talk directly to her. Let her know how sorry you are and that you really care about her...that you were afraid of getting rejected and that's why you lied about it...but that there was no intention of hurting her. And if even though you have said sorry and all that and she stills doesn't want to be your friend...well is not worthy to keep going...sometimes those people that doesn't forgive think they are perfect and that they never make any mistakes...and you don't want to date someone like that right? :)
So don't worry!...
2006-08-20 11:09:08 · answer #6 · answered by There! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay I don't know why people are being so stupid and saying "you suck" because you don't. you were just scared to tell her that it was you, and yes you need to tell her how much you care for her, and just let her know that you were scared. You are NOT the only person that has done that before. just be upfront with her, let her know your true feelings, and stop being scared. if you like her, then you like her, not a huge horrifying ordeal. it's a good thing. Just talk to her. and tell her not to get so mad over something so silly. it wasn't even really a lie. it was you trying to make yourself feel more comfortable talking to her.
2006-08-20 11:04:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright you know what you should do I think you have it all planned out for it and I think you thought about it through...when you think there is no one for you to go to there is always the friends and stuff to give you advice and alot of the people on here gave you good advice so all I can say is....go for it when you are ready to make it happen...Genius
2006-08-20 15:40:17 · answer #8 · answered by Alysa of Narcissica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email her and tell her that you were sorry and you really liked her and that you wanted her to like you but you were shy. If she doesn't respond send her a rose with a card. If none of that works talk to her friends and tell them. Her decision seems a bit rash, and tell her friends that you truly care about her etc.
2006-08-20 11:04:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find a way to get in touch with her. Tell her the truth...that you were shy and scared about what she would say. I think if you tell her the truth she will feel a bit better....don't just let it go.
2006-08-20 11:02:40 · answer #10 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!
I would have been flattered, unless I am not interested in that guy.
My advice is to move on and I am so sorry for your loss. The good thing is no more "what if", and I admire you for that courage.
2006-08-20 11:04:17 · answer #11 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋