He calims its NSU but it is chymidia? And does that indicate that he has been unfaithful if have never been treated for it?
2006-08-20 10:51:42 · 16 answers · asked by reenie 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
It hurts when a partner is hiding something ,whatever that may be,but more especially on health issues. Yet it is always better to begin by trying to understand why he is lying and see if there could be a common ground.The grass looks greener on the other side of the fence.you never can say what the next partner could be lying about.A thorough understanding of the present situation could serve as some purpose with the next partner.
2006-08-20 11:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off i would be mad as hell that's my health hes putting at risk. yes he has probably been unfaithful if you dont have it or have not been with anyone else. make sure you get in and get checked. its a really easy thing to treat!! then you should have a long talk not argument about why he has it and why he lied and how he put you at risk. i am truly sorry you are going through this i actually went through this same kinda thing a few months back... i found out my bf of 4 years cheated on me when i went to the doc for an annual and had chlamydia. i hadn't been with anyone else and he tried to deny it was him i havent talked to him since so good luck with everything... make sure you see a doc and dont forget he put you at risk dont let him forget that.
2006-08-20 11:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by confused1004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would just be crushed and tainted feeling i would get well then talk seriously as it couldve been aids and if hes stepping out then u 2 need to work on whats next.. NSU measn non specific urethritis meaning to women we can get vaginitus a build up of our own natural germ,s called haemophilia's an imbalance but it isn't VD but it can be spread thru sex but not necessarily got that way a microorganism can be at fault like anal sex to front.. or yeasts that gone on to long.. or jock itch if it was chlamydia it will say so as that is a VD bad one.. like gonorrhea NSU is common they need to be cleaner wear cotton more just like if u wore pantyhose not proper wiping u would get vaginitis give him this benefit of ur doubt as men get things like we do on our own also diabetic get things like yeas as well for no reason and stress brings it out upsetting the acid balance.. i would watch and monitor both of u did u get checked?
2006-08-20 11:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you jump to conclusions and blaming him let me tell you that Chlamidya is rife, and can be dormant symptomless in women for years. So you could have passed it to him. Have a checkup and protect yourself by wearing a condom.
You have a trust issue with your partner which goes way beyond chlamidya. You have decide why this is and what you want to do about it You need to communicate this to him.
2006-08-20 11:03:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's just put it this way, babydoll. don't put up with any amount of lies. if he lies ONCE and it's a small one, give the guy another chance. if number two follows, no matter what it's about..leave. you deserve a lot better. what is this? number one? it's still a giant lie. you say you're boyfriend? or husband? if it's a husband...work it out. if it's a boyfriend...bye bye to him.
2006-08-20 11:25:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has the clap, it means he's been dipping his wick in someone else's honey pot. There's no other way to get it.
Get yourself checked immediately, then confront him with your knowledge and punch him for not using protection. He could just as easily have caught AIDS and given it to you...
2006-08-20 10:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really risking your life ... but quite possibly risking your fertility for him.
Dump him
Or ... have an intense conversation with him at about 4am and THEN dump him!
Then get checked.
2006-08-20 11:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shoud tell you, it's a risk for you too. and it doesn't mean he's unfaithful, he could've gotten it from someone else and they just found it. it can pop up a year later sometimes, you need to get tested though
2006-08-20 11:01:30 · answer #8 · answered by lulucakes32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the lier and get checked.
2006-08-20 10:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by Capt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its claymidia,dump he chick cuz he's been screwing around. u should get urself checked cuz if let untreated in can cause women to become infertile....... why u think ivf is getting so popular?????
2006-08-20 11:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by misslovelessuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋