Black & White Couples?

Question

Hey, everyone! I was just wondering what do u think about black and white couples? Because i like this white guy and he likes me but i dont want to take this into a relationship because im scared this my turn into something horrible. I mean alot of people are against itand alot are not. But me and him are not? What do u guys think?

Answer 1

Life is short, love who you want !

Answer 2

I am white and was married to a black guy almost 30 years ago and have two sons in their late 20s. I have also been divorced for 26 years (not because of racial reasons). I have dated all different kinds of people. I think in the end, what matters most is if your backgrounds are compatible (i.e. how you were raised, traditions, culture, etc.). The U.S. is supposedly a classless society, but that is not true and I have found that it's more important if you come from similar classes, not race.

Answer 3

not thoroughly...or a minimum of genetically they received't be thoroughly white. yet a black and white man or woman can produce a baby that has lighter positive houses. If the black man or woman has no white of their linage and the white man or woman has no black in the different case, they could have a baby who became particularly user-friendly skinned (mixed of white and black, pores and skin colour isn't dominant-recessive) and darkish hair (hair colour is dominant-recessive). Eyes might want to be darkish too...even if the newborn can seem usually white, with darkish positive houses. The little female in the course of the line feels like she is italian...and is a blend between black and white. Genetically, they are going to be about 50-50...yet function sensible they could resemble one race or the different a great deal.

Answer 4

I'm not white, but I'm in an interracial marriage. I'm Hispanic and my husband is Black. It shouldn't matter, however if you are the type of person who cares what others think it may be hard. You sometimes have to deal with other peoples rude a**comments, but if you really care for that person then just say F*** you to everyone else. It's just skin. Different colors nothing else. BTW we have gorgeous children!!! People need to get over that $hit!!!!
Good Luck and follow your heart!

Answer 5

I don't see any problem or strange to that.
On the other hand, if you think that there are resistances to your racial relationship, you can use it as a test to your true feeling toward each other. If you do feel that you two are mean for each other and true to each other, that should withstand the test. If that is just infatuation, then doesn't matter what color that is.

Ask yourself one thing, what if he is not white. Would you have to think twice ? What is the thing about him attracks you ? Was it the factor of race to begin with ?

Answer 6

I guess you aint sure of what you really want out of life and love in particular.

Do you love this guy?
Was it other people that brought you together?
Who determines what you love and don't?

Wake up my dear, follow ur heart. if you are waiting to here my opinion and others, I sure think you've got a long way to go and might be wasting ur time and life.

So the decision to do whatever it is you wanna do is yours and forever yours, cos whatever decision you make, good or bad, you bear the brunt.

In your country, you've got a lot of instances you could use to know where you stand. my dear, you have all it takes to make the right decision from all thats around you.

However, Good Luck and CIAO!!!!!!

Answer 7

my parents were of different races and i've dated and been married to a black man (widowed) and now i'm with a white man. i dont think it should matter what anyone else thinks--you fall for who you fall for. i'm not unhappy as a mixed race person and neither are my children (who are told all of the time how beautiful they are--unique looking). i lived in texas where folks made a big deal out of it when you were out with someone different, but i dated who i liked. felt great to get back home to california though! good luck fair juliet--a rose by any other name is still a rose!

Answer 8

Put it this way ,Its not the color of the person that makes you happy its the person. I never was predudice but I always thought people should stick to their own kind.Tho no a days people are looking for happiness and if you find it in a nother color go for it, life is too short to be worried about the color of ones skin. Happines is happines there is no color in that. Good luck

Answer 9

Go for it, sweetie. If you like him and he likes you, you should definitely give the relationship a try. He might just be The One. Anyone who makes a disparaging remark about your relationship just because of your different skin colours is far too narrow-minded to be counted as a friend. You can't live your life by what you think will make others happy- it'll just make you miserable, and you can never please everyone. :)

Answer 10

I have dated two black girls and yes, we did have some problems, but for the most part people were ok. While neither one went anywhere, I enjoyed dating them both and feel you should never discount a person just for color. I say if you like him enough to give dating a try, color should be your last concern.

Answer 11

Do what you both want. There are always going to be people who are opposed to inter racial dating and mating--they are very small minded people who should be ignored. Sadly, our world is full of people whose main activity in life seems to be ""being against" something or other. Too bad for them but we should try to ignore them. Love who you love and be more generous then all the 'naysyers' in our world. Good luck.